Am4Real Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 ???????? Now you're really not making sense ???????? I've re-read your posting and cannot comprehend what you are expecting to get out of this approach and what is actually occuring. It makes no sense because you don't understand the situation in its entirety. My ex is a support system. I'm at the point where being an imbecile, dealing with the depression yet having support is better than being alone dealing with depression/anxiety not having any support or physical interaction, human communication. I totally agree though that doing what I'm doing is definitely not the right way to be handling things.
Author CompleteFailure Posted May 6, 2013 Author Posted May 6, 2013 ???????? Now you're really not making sense ???????? I've re-read your posting and cannot comprehend what you are expecting to get out of this approach and what is actually occuring. It's probably because I keep flip flopping with what I want/feel/believe to be right and what she wants right now/what I want for her and what I know is the right thing to do. If it was my perfect world, I expect that our relationship could go back to before she started seeing this other person. She'd be there for me, I'd get help and we'd start moving together towards a more positive outcome. What's actually occurring is that she's smothered by the flip flopping of my actions/words, depression, guilt and negativity on a daily/weekly basis. It's pushing her further away faster whilst helping her to completely get over us with little or no remorse/regret, if not already.
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