aal763 Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Alright, a girl I'm really interested in and whose my friend said yes to a study date. It'll be in my dorm room. I was hoping to impress her when she comes over. I was planning on having some of her favorite snacks set out and maybe ordering a pizza before she comes. I need some other ideas as to how to make the study date seem, well, like an actual date? How could I make it fun and increase attraction? Thanks
normal person Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Alright, a girl I'm really interested in and whose my friend said yes to a study date. It'll be in my dorm room. I was hoping to impress her when she comes over. I was planning on having some of her favorite snacks set out and maybe ordering a pizza before she comes. I need some other ideas as to how to make the study date seem, well, like an actual date? How could I make it fun and increase attraction? Thanks Why don't you dim the lights and have some Barry White playing when she walks in? Seriously though, I think this is a bad idea. If you want to date her, don't trick her into doing it under false pretenses. That's lame and kind of creepy. Just ask her out like a normal confident guy would do. Maybe use the studying as an opportunity to ask. No tricks. 1
dbrown Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Hi there… Actually it depends where you are going for the date? If you are arranging at home then you can do many things to attract her. Actually the girls are always good at this but you can also make the perfect arrangements for her with little research. If you are good at decorating things , then decorate the house with romantic ambiance, use flower of her choice, balloons, romantic music tracks . Set a dinner table nicely.. Do some decent talk with a little flirting and try to know more about her and tell her about you. You can hire a date planner , I also did this because I am not good at arranging the things, they helped me and set up my date according to my choice.
Author aal763 Posted April 16, 2013 Author Posted April 16, 2013 (edited) Why don't you dim the lights and have some Barry White playing when she walks in? Seriously though, I think this is a bad idea. If you want to date her, don't trick her into doing it under false pretenses. That's lame and kind of creepy. Just ask her out like a normal confident guy would do. Maybe use the studying as an opportunity to ask. No tricks. Well, I actually was planning on asking her out sometime during the study session. I wasn't really planning on making a move while studying. I just want her to have a little fun, because just studying is so boring and no girl wants a boring guy. Edited April 16, 2013 by aal763
meghann8 Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 If she's going to your dorm to study, you should at least try to get some studying in. It'll show her that you're serious about your classes even if you can't actually concentrate on your studies during this first study date. This is a great opportunity to get to know her more and talk, but don't go overboard on gifts and food. Pizza is a good idea, but don't buy the junk food isle. Have a few options for drinks like soda, energy drinks and water. I suggest don't burn any candles or play slow music unless it's Bach or something study-worthy. She might run for the hills if she thinks it's a set-up! If everything does go well, at the end of the study date, you should ask her, "do you want to do this again, or maybe go out to dinner instead?" It'll give her an option as to if she's only comfortable studying with you or if she wants to take it a little further. She won't feel backed into a corner and need to make a decision right away. If she chooses the dinner option, then perfect. If she chooses the study date again, then still perfect. This will give you another opportunity to get to know her more and vice versa. If she declines both options, then her loss. I hope it all goes well for you!
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