golk Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 Well it's been 6 months post breakup and I can honestly say to everyone going through it, it gets better. Much better. While I am in no way fully healed and moved on, I am 100x better than what I was the first 2 months after the breakup. I remember crying and not being able to sleep. Having a hard time focusing on anything in my life. Thinking how was I going to be able to make it through this? Barely eating and becoming someone who I really wasn't to dull the pain. And trust me when I say my situation sucked! I know everyone's situation on this site sucks but basically my ex (who I was her first) is out whoring around campus and has become a really different person in many ways which I won't get into lol. I can say with utmost certainty that it is the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with but things are so much better than they were months ago. We've been on and off contact at various times but the relief for me has been knowing that it is over forever. No more hope to string me along with. I've decided in my own head that we will never be again and this one thing has really helped me with my progress. The biggest thing for me was finding something to really put all your effort and time into. Working out (which I've always done) has been my passion ever since and it is the best part of everyday. Also, changing my perspective on things has really helped. I think of it now as a blessing because if this is who she always was or has become then we weren't meant to be together anyways and I honestly feel like I can find someone much better. I will say that I still do think of her everyday but I think that is more being used to her and spending so much time together. The fact that I see her on campus weekly hasn't helped one bit but I'm really beginning to forgive her and move on with the bitterness and grief I've held onto. I definitely miss her and our times but I think that will fade once I find someone who I can care for just as much as I did her. So to everyone at the beginning of all this, it DOES get better. Just focus on the important things in life and better yourself. You'll thank yourself later on. 3
Mellow1 Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Im glad your thinking positive boo just keep your head up and smile
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