Mjack1234 Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 So, my boyfriend broke up with me, I was (and still am) devastated, but we had a pretty clean break as far as break ups go. And then a week later.. I snapped. Somethig triggered my emotions and they overflowed into texts to him. He responded at first but as my texts got longer and more filled with my feelings he eventually stopped (I don't blame him). He texted me the next day saying that he wants everything to be cool with me (we were best friends for years before dating) but it's hard to talk to me if he conversation goes there. I know I acted desperate, and needy, and I kind of wanted to smack myself while I was saying everything to him but I guess I really had to get it out. Guys, is this a really damaging way to act? Is there any way a girl can redeem herself after acting horribly emotional or am I scarred as the one who totally lost it?
TheFriend Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 It's normal to loose your self emotionally. The redeeming wont come from you snapping. As i guy i can tell you I would understand why a girl i left was upset. It would put me off for a while and also make me think. I think as long as you do not further the damage you will be ok.
foreverandalways Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 I think it depends on what you're trying to achieve. If you truly want to be friends, and are accepting and OK with that...I think it can happen. He said it could, he just can't talk to you if it's going to get emotional for you. If you're trying to get him back, that's a different story. Acting needy is not attractive (although I'm sure many can admit to having done it a time or two...myself included). And if he broke up with you, you can't make him want you back. So fixing things in that sense are probably not likely.
Mellow1 Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 You should relax and smile more ... If its meant to be it will happen the best thing to do is listen to relaxing music, hang out with friends, go shopping, something that puts you at ease I know its hard because I did the same but focus on yourself its the reason why he was with you because you was calm and gorgeous so smile
flight E Posted May 4, 2013 Posted May 4, 2013 I did d same tin too text message terorism and it got me to see that we will never get back together, if someone cares abt u it wont matter. They will miss u when u stop. Mine doesnt care abt me anymore dats y i know we wont get back together
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