picaso28 Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 So finally text girl I took out on date asking if she wanted to go on date 3. Her reply: date sounds good but can't do this sat as planned to meet friend. Will prob be the next weekend ?!.... Confused.....basically its a brush off but in a sort of confusing way. I dont really know how to respond to this. Thinking of calling her but think it will prob freak her out if I am so pushy. This dating game is hard!
clia Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 It's not a brush off -- she's telling you she can't do it this Saturday, but can do next weekend. Text her back and say "Okay, so the 27th?" or ask her for any other night than this Saturday, where she already has plans with her friend. 1
todreaminblue Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 So finally text girl I took out on date asking if she wanted to go on date 3. Her reply: date sounds good but can't do this sat as planned to meet friend. Will prob be the next weekend ?!.... Confused.....basically its a brush off but in a sort of confusing way. I dont really know how to respond to this. Thinking of calling her but think it will prob freak her out if I am so pushy. This dating game is hard! she questioned whether you wanted to do it another day so call her and arrange another day when she hasnt got plans....she wants to ...so do it.....deb
Author picaso28 Posted April 15, 2013 Author Posted April 15, 2013 I think I just messed up...I sort of text her saying ok no worries, made a little joke. No response and but I didn't even ask her anything....dohhhhh Why didn't I call or text like you said??? Ha I just thought though that if she was interested she would have at least text with an alternative date though. Maybe I call her in a few days or is that too desperate ?
Cutiepie1976 Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 (edited) How old are you? Have you dated before? What was wrong with all the advice from this morning's thread? Edited April 15, 2013 by Cutiepie1976
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 So finally text girl I took out on date asking if she wanted to go on date 3. Her reply: date sounds good but can't do this sat as planned to meet friend. Will prob be the next weekend ?!.... Confused.....basically its a brush off but in a sort of confusing way. I dont really know how to respond to this. Thinking of calling her but think it will prob freak her out if I am so pushy. This dating game is hard! Stop over-thinking things and don't put all of your eggs in one basket. Either: 1) Have many girls (so you don't get stressed out....and, thus, make irrational decisions over one girl). 2) Have tons of hobbies and confidence and realize that it's no loss to you if things don't work out with this one girl.
Author picaso28 Posted April 16, 2013 Author Posted April 16, 2013 Yeah you are right but I did enjoy dates and would have liked to see where it went. Not really player type so lots of girls isn't really viable option for me. Got two other girls that could lead somewhere. As for confidence, interests etc I'm in great place and love my life. Just now feel ready to share it with someone but I'm now at that age where meeting girls is hard. That's why resorted to old. Have two options with now: Don't contact her, be stuborn...she knows I dig her and she has my number or, Ring her next few days, ask her straight up for another date. May come across desperate but nothing to lose right? Advice ???
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