ColaBucks Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 My ex who broke up with me 3 and a bit weeks ago keeps asking my best friend if I'm okay, saying he is worried about me and wondering if I want to be friends. We have just today gone back to college after a 2 week Easter break and we caught a glimpse of each other a couple of times. Maybe seeing be brought back old feelings for a bit? Me, I felt very little for him when I saw him, but hearing that he's 'worried' about me and is wondering if I want to be friends has made me overthink things again. He also put a Facebook status saying; 'Can you please tell me where we stand? So I can move on?' He broke up with me. Surely it should be him telling us where we stand? He shouldn't be expecting me to be crawling back to him after all the hurt he's caused me these past few weeks. For those who are wondering, we were together 2.5 years before we broke up.
january2011 Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 And are you okay? If you are, just ignore it if you think he's just trying to worm himself back in and you don't want to be friends. Sometimes people feel the need to be the good guy. Sometimes, they don't understand it when you are not reacting to a breakup (or any other emotionally traumatic event) in the way that they expect you to. Sometimes, they project their own emotions onto you. Yes, he broke up with you. And based on your post, there's no confusion about where you think you stand. Block him from Facebook. Stop checking his Facebook status. Ask the best friend to field his enquiries - if they are happy to do that. Alternatively, email him and say that it is clear where you stand, you are moving on with you life and you'd prefer it if he stopped harrassing you on Facebook and stopped harrassing your best friend. Then delete him.
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