racoon5 Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 So another update on the threads ''small update'', ''ex girlfriend dumped me'' As i said there i leave for the army tommorow and decided to break nc not to get back with her, not give her any remorse or regret nor anything else, jus't my final words on a long relationship that has now ended a bit ago. i went nc for 2.5 weeks not hearing a word for her. i'm leaving for the army today, and i send her this: i've always had a great time with you, things went the way they went good or bad, i don't regret anything. I wish u the most of happiness, and luck with you're new relationship but as you know i never lie about anything i do i told you i was leaving for the army if i had the opportunity and well tommorow i'm departing. The chances are i will never see you again. so again i wish u the best of luck and i'm sorry for any harm i caused you.xx right after that turned off my phone and left it at home. it took me a long time to text her this but it feels good.
Damsel in Distress Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 I can understand why you wanted to send a final message before you leave. I believe you wrote this only to say goodbye and not with hopes of pulling her back in. I like the ton. and I think it showed a lot of self control to shut off the phone and leave it at home. It takes a lot of courage to volunteer to serve your country and I wish you well. I think you said you are serving for another country, and I hope it's not a country where you will be in harm's way. Will you still be on LS? I don't know if you will have free time or internet access? I hope we will still hear from you. Have a good trip tomorrow and be safe.
Author racoon5 Posted April 15, 2013 Author Posted April 15, 2013 I can understand why you wanted to send a final message before you leave. I believe you wrote this only to say goodbye and not with hopes of pulling her back in. I like the ton. and I think it showed a lot of self control to shut off the phone and leave it at home. It takes a lot of courage to volunteer to serve your country and I wish you well. I think you said you are serving for another country, and I hope it's not a country where you will be in harm's way. Will you still be on LS? I don't know if you will have free time or internet access? I hope we will still hear from you. Have a good trip tomorrow and be safe. LS? , ye ill have free time / internet acces jus't for my dad and close friends my dad was in the hospital and still is when she left me, our fight (me and my dad) about me not departing jus't for her. but ye short story it took alot of self control to do this, even if u know the guy she's dating is everything she never wanted me to be ( kinda sad really but hey) i will be in harm's way but helping people is what i have always done, in school , family i always stood up for the weak, and fragile this sounds heroic but really it isn't. i saw myself in those people before i stood up and said what i thought instead of being the quite guy in the corner i said no to weed and any form of drugs cause it was ruining my career and social life. but yes it was hard, it really was. the moment i shut off my phone i didn't know if i wanted to know her response if she even responded at all but it's my way of saying hey i still love you, but i won't hold you back, i want you to be happy.
Damsel in Distress Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 LS = LoveShack! to give us an update! I want to hear how how your story plays out. Don't turn your phone back on until you are ready for the consequences whatever they may be (silence, formal unemotional response, whatever). There is honor in serving your country and I hope that gives you strength. I have often felt I should do something very selfless and noble - like major volunteer work or start an orphanage. Just idle thoughts. You are actually doing something selfless and noble. Wishing you luck. Stay safe, Racoon.
Author racoon5 Posted April 15, 2013 Author Posted April 15, 2013 LS = LoveShack! to give us an update! I want to hear how how your story plays out. Don't turn your phone back on until you are ready for the consequences whatever they may be (silence, formal unemotional response, whatever). There is honor in serving your country and I hope that gives you strength. I have often felt I should do something very selfless and noble - like major volunteer work or start an orphanage. Just idle thoughts. You are actually doing something selfless and noble. Wishing you luck. Stay safe, Racoon. the fact is i changed so much since the break up thinking about stuff i'm only 18 and a few months but after i knew i ****ed up my relationship, i jus't focused on what i wanted. Do i want to work in some 9 to 5 job no, do i want to another employee going to work because he needs to and not because he wants to. I found the best alternative the army helping people serving you're country and doing good to the world. it jus't paisn my heart that knowing she's over me and she was dating someone else 2.5 weeks after break up it's so painfull knwoing u found that one person u wanted to do everything for, and live with forever. I'm not good at showing love or letting people know how much i love them, but i do with all my mind and body. i will never forget her even how hard i try she made me realise how much life had to offer, and my life over those 18 years has also shown me how much i changed from being a useless piece of garbage to a good guy with a good heart. and it feels good knowing that i will never let anyone get me down, but she geezes she made me so good i slept with her every week in the week-ends how can you move on so quik regardless of what i did or said.
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