Ex broke no contact with me and it's set me back

[OnMyTod]

Basically ex threw me breadcrumbs then run off with tail between legs to new guy and forced no contact on me and i respected her wishes. The other day out of the blue I get a text to tell me i might want to know someone who is related to us had died (my ex-uncle was married to her nan... one of those total coincidences, i never knew of the connection until we began dating). Even had nerve to sign it off with a kiss. She didn't need to as my cousins were out in Spain with him. i sent a very safe condolence message and left it at that. Then i put a message on Facebook to my cousins and she 'liked't it. So have blocked her. She doesn't have a clue how I've been last couple of months and just one little message has done my head in. Can't bare feeling like this anymore it's just crap. Funeral was today and i have not sent any texts or messages to her so suppose that's a step in the right direction.

[Chi townD]

You just have to take the text for what it was. Someone notifying you of someone's passing. Nothing more and nothing less. It certainly wasn't a admission of her missing you or caring about you.

 

It was just a notification.

 

Back to NC.

[OnMyTod]

Yes, just cross as i've been through the mill and have enough familly here to tell me and who is she to break NC with me. i've not even got her mobile number. So pissed off with her.

[blindhope]

From my personal experience and just reading many posts on these boards it seems when the dumpee can finally barging to move on after the pain and pining, the dumper usually then reaches out. Maybe its because they like the safety net, or maybe they have a smallest amount of the rejection with us strong enough to no longer be there. Or maybe they are cruel and love the game of it. Either way they need to realize we don't care what they have to say anymore. Glad you're keeping up on NC.