Leegh Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 I've read that a married man, that is having an affair, who is serious about leaving his wife for the other woman, usually leaves his wife within six months to be with the other woman. In addition, the article said that when affairs drag on for several years or more, the chances that he will leave his wife for the other woman go downhill. I realize there are different situations, such as having young children, etc., where it would be harder for the man to leave, but I would just like opinions on the subject, as to whether or not you folks agree with the above. Thanks in advance!
Gunny376 Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 Having been a long time self study student of such things? Its a fact (Generally speaking? There's always the exception, and the guy that's going to throw a "Yea, but,...................example at you). But the longer two people live together? The chances of their actually ever getting married diminishes with each passing year. What is more? They have much greater divorce rate if and when they do get married. Ditto, for couples that date endless for years and years. There's a break-even point to where if it hasn't happened by 'X' amount of time? It ain't a gonna happen at all, and if it does? It probally won't last. Mrs Gunny and I have know each other for eight years ~ but it was only the last year and half that I allowed it to turn into anything more than friendship. Up to that point I wouldn't allow the relationship to manifest itself into anything other than friendship. Family and other such obligations certainly factor into the equation, but the primary one that counts the most significantly is time. Usually its very much the case of one or the other of the two parties being a 'cake-eater' with never having any intention of leaving the BS? And there's a lot of reason that vary among women and men for doing this? Usually it can be found in answering the question, "Why men don't get enough sex, and women don't get enough love?" Of course if they had reconciled that question in their marriages in the first place? They probally wouldn't have been cheating to begin with now would they?
GuyInLimbo Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 So I take it you are being strung along by a MM?
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