AWill718 Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 I work in a store and I only been working there for a month and a few weeks. From the time i started working there i spotted a girl that work as a cashier in the store. Really tall and gorgeous. Asked a few people about her in the store and I get the same response that this girl has a bad attitude and guys have approached her but she always shoots them down. So now a lot of the guys don't pay her any attention. Since I have been there i haven't said anything to her or even really looked in her direction. I walk by the front end a lot and it seems or every time we happen to walk by each other i always see her looking at me. I always catch out the corner of my eye that she somehow is looking at me. One time im walking down the aisle with my friend who is a female and she was walking towards us and she moves to the other side of the aisle and as she walks by us she flips her hair. There is a lot more to this so bare with me lol. I told another guy in my department that i thought she was cute. He happens to be a really close friend of hers. A few days later he keeps joking with me saying "there goes your girlfriend" or "there goes your girl". Him and this girl knows each other and even though about becoming room mates with each other. Why would he even say thats my girl and all that? Does he know something i obviously don't? And since I'm not going out of my way to say anything to her unlike every other guy thats walked through the store is she checking me out wondering why im not giving her attention or does she think im attractive?
normal person Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 A few days later he keeps joking with me saying "there goes your girlfriend" or "there goes your girl". Him and this girl knows each other and even though about becoming room mates with each other. Why would he even say thats my girl and all that? Because you did this: I told another guy in my department that i thought she was cute. People will do this sort of thing all day to each other just for fun. I still do it with my friends. Except most of the time we do it in reference to people we know the person finds offputting just for a laugh. "Oh, there's your boy/girl. What're you gonna say to him/her? I bet he/she's free tonight. What do you think about that goatee that he's dyed purple? Pretty hot, huh?" It's just innocent ball-busting and there's not really any read into it further yet. That being said, he is her good friend so him telling her eventually isn't out of the realm of possibility. But if you have that kind of "buddies" relationship with him I don't think he'd mention anything about it to her unless she said something about you first. 1
Author AWill718 Posted April 15, 2013 Author Posted April 15, 2013 Because you did this: People will do this sort of thing all day to each other just for fun. I still do it with my friends. Except most of the time we do it in reference to people we know the person finds offputting just for a laugh. "Oh, there's your boy/girl. What're you gonna say to him/her? I bet he/she's free tonight. What do you think about that goatee that he's dyed purple? Pretty hot, huh?" It's just innocent ball-busting and there's not really any read into it further yet. That being said, he is her good friend so him telling her eventually isn't out of the realm of possibility. But if you have that kind of "buddies" relationship with him I don't think he'd mention anything about it to her unless she said something about you first. Yeah we aren't buddies like we have known each other for a long time. I'm new to the job and we work together. And he is really cool and we chat. So i don't know if he would go back to her and tell her that i was kind of interested. I let it be known to him i dont want my business spread all over the place so keep it cool when he says things like "there goes your girl" cause people will take that as me and her are already involved. I'm the type of person that my friends will tell me "Yo dude that girl is checking you out" and i'm like nah i doubt it. Not saying i have low self esteem or no confidence. Its just that i never used to catch girls checking me out. But now at this job I walk past work she works and i dont have to look directly over but out the corner of my eye I can see her eyes on me. She has a bad reputation for her attitude and not responding to guys so it makes me wonder is she even checking me out cause she doesnt wanna date anyone at work. But im also probably one of the only guys that has not approached her yet. So maybe she's wondering why hasn't this guy said anything to me or paid me any attention. She seems like one of those girls who knows they are gorgeous and loves the attention but wont actually date you lol
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