a0009 Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 I want to talk to my ex so bad that i cant even concentrate on anything..we have broken up for about two weeks and she dumped me....I dont have anyone to talk to about it.....any advice will help even if you trash me..
Cogee Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 Write a letter with everything you want to say and then destroy it. Posting here the things you want to say may also help you. You have to get it off your chest at some point. I personally wrote about 3 super long emails to my ex that I never sent and talked a lot with my family/friends about it. Find someone who will listen to you. Seek professional help if it is making your life very difficult without having someone to talk to. 2
Chi townD Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 She just dumped you two weeks ago. Of course you're going to feel this way. But, the best thing you can do is NOT contact her. Remember, she wanted you OUT of her life. So, give her what she wants. If she wanted you gone, do you REALLY think she wants to hear from you? And to be honest, if she dumped you, then she doesn't deserve to know how you're felling or how you're doing. SHe gave up that right.
js1967 Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 Its tough, real tough. Just DONT CONTACT HER AT ALL. Its real easy to type here on a forum and say that's the thing to do. I have had a very rapid recovery for the most part from a devastating break up. Sound advice from this forum, plus getting back in control of my own self helped greatly. She doesent want you anymore, I suggest you find that insulting and not give her the satisfaction of you reaching out to contact her because SHE IS NOT WORTH ONE SECOND OF YOUR TIME. Move on, find another, you will be happy again.
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