cle408 Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 Hey guys, any advice is appreciated! So I met this girl two weeks ago at a concert, we met through a mutual friend. After the concert I invited the two girls back to my hotel which I was sharing with two platonic friends (this is pretty irrelevant). So we're drinking back at the hotel and the girl I just met at the concert is giving me serious hints that she's interested. By the end of the night we are making out in the bed, she tries to take my pants off but because of drugs and alcohol I can't get started if you know what I mean, plus she yaks so we end up just going to sleep. The next morning, things are not awkward and as we part ways, I say we'll hang out soon and she happily agrees. Later that day I make plans with her to go out for drinks and a movie, she says yes and that she would really love to get to know me. Cool. We go out the following Wednesday. It was a textbook date, we have a few drinks, share a few laughs, touching, cuddle in the theaters, and once its time to say goodbye at the cars, we share a good night kiss. I ask her, do you want to keep seeing each other again she happily agrees. Fast forward to Friday, I go out of town, which she knows. She text me at 5:30AM saying, "Have a good trip ." She knows my flight is at 6. Later that night she tells me shes going to a concert and sends me a picture of herself. I respond, "Damn, you're making me regret going to Seattle." and I follow up with, "Leave your Sunday open, I'm gonna cook for you " At this point, I feel like we've built enough rapport and Comfort to invite her over to the house. No response. Saturday morning, I called her, no response. So now I'm wondering, did I go too far telling her I was gonna cook for her? I'm not worried that she met a dude or whatever, we're just talking but what I want to know is if I scared her off? I haven't contacted her since and the ball is in her court so I'm just going to leave it there, if she doesn't return the ball, then I guess its time to move on right? Again any advice/suggestion/general thoughts would be appreciated. Thanks!
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 Who knows? You should have sealed the deal when you had the chance though (either the drunk night or on the date).
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