ananomalie Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 I am a dumpee. I was happy in my relationship but apparently my boyfriend was not. He gave it some thought and dumped me. Said he loved me and even wrote me a lovely note about all the things he would miss about me. Now he wants me back. I'm really distraught/confused/distraught. He broke my heart. He had all the facts before and decided I wasn't worth the effort. What I want to know is why? Just missing someone isn't a reason. The original problems still exist so how can a second try really be different? I want to hear from the dumpers. What makes you think it's going to work for you now?
thefooloftheyear Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 How much time has gone by? Were you in contact with him?
swiftly333 Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 Sometimes you don't realize what you had until it's gone...... I don't think that makes them a bad person. We all make mistakes. What do you want? 1
intigo Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 For me its better to regret things that you did than things that you didnt, YOU know him is he honest with you?did he admit his mistakes? did he give you a reason? if you take him back just take it slow
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