irc333 Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 I went to a Meetup, social/singles event...had a good time, met this one woman who was funny as all get it, she did a bit of a "hike" to get to said Meetup. Found out her opinion on what she's "Looking for" in a guy, she had another female friend with her even....and HER friend claimed she was into "beefy" men, and she denied it...she said she "likes" them, but she said she'd like to be able to have a slice of cheese cake every so often (she's a bit curvy/thick, but nice looking, pretty smile and dimples). It seems, in general, women are torn between wanting an "attractive" guy, but the attractive ones like to "play" and sleep around it seems. It's like they're stuck not able to "have it all". Are good looking men wired to be stuck on themselves more so into the women they are dating it seems?
lynn1954 Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 As fun as it is to generalize and stereotype sometimes, the generalizations and stereotypes are often not useful and not true. Good-looking men can be kind, gentle and considerate or self-centered and narcissistic. Good-looking women can be kind, gentle and considerate or self-centered and narcissitic. I'm glad you had a good time at the Meetup. Whether you consider yourself to be good-looking or not, just continue to be kind, considerate, funny and caring with the women you meet, and you'll certainly find the woman who is right for you. 1
carhill Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 Glad you got out. I spent my day engineering a new product for travel trailers. You apparently had a lot more fun!
Star Gazer Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 It seems, in general, women are torn between wanting an "attractive" guy, but the attractive ones like to "play" and sleep around it seems. It's like they're stuck not able to "have it all". More generalizations about all women based on the statements of ONE!!!
reaver Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 It seems, in general, women are torn between wanting an "attractive" guy, but the attractive ones like to "play" and sleep around it seems. It's like they're stuck not able to "have it all". Are good looking men wired to be stuck on themselves more so into the women they are dating it seems? Just like men want an super hot woman who is happy with them, yet (most) men cannot attain them easily so they settle for an average looking one. Nobody gets their ideal in dating. No, there arent many attractive men with good character and personalities but there are some. They are rarely single in my personal experience. This generalization exists prob for men and women of the type you describe but not for 100% Just be yourself
ComeUpOutDaWahta Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 Reminds me of that song by The Smiths called "Some Girls Are Bigger Than Others." Kind of a satire on the hyper-focus on females and the desire to come up with a "quick solution" to all of them at once. You'd be surprised how easy it is to figure a woman out once you let the fact that she's a woman slip from your mind.
Author irc333 Posted April 15, 2013 Author Posted April 15, 2013 Yeah, what's sad is, there's remaining single women and MEN I'm sure that ....while they seem like nice people, great to hang out with, and all that....you can see their superficiality slip through occasionally when their verbage includes pointing out a "hot" guy or "check out that guy with the huge biceps, he's cute!!" or when they start to talk about their standards that you'll never live up to. What's sadder is, they aren't much to look at themselves. This one in particular, though pretty, is a bit on the thick side, and considering the location is mostly men desiring sleek or athletic/petite women...she might have a hard time dating. They start talking like we all used to do as teenagers, when we'd check out the hottest classmates. Then they revert back to their normal, mature selves. Just like men want an super hot woman who is happy with them, yet (most) men cannot attain them easily so they settle for an average looking one. Nobody gets their ideal in dating. No, there arent many attractive men with good character and personalities but there are some. They are rarely single in my personal experience. This generalization exists prob for men and women of the type you describe but not for 100% Just be yourself
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