Author lakerman34 Posted April 21, 2013 Author Posted April 21, 2013 So that long post from yesterday.... Basically you could have saved writing the whole thing and said "She is on holidays, she's pretty much down for whatever with whoever and she's being a bit bitchy towards me so I'm not really interested.". Dude, what are you at? You're LETTING her create the drama... Do you know how easy it would be to ACTUALLY stay out of her way? But look above, every time you so much as leave your house, you know where she is, what she's doing at all times! You know they tell people not to stare at the car ahead if it were to crash because you subconsciously steer towards what you are looking at. Like, just IGNORE her... don't find out where she is, what she's doing, who she's with, don't take care of her when she's pretending to be sick (and jesus christ, do not make her stick fingers down her throat, seriously???). Also, a girl slightly concerned about STD's is a turn off for you? Man, sort your head out!!!! I don't know where she is ever, and don't really care. She, apparently, knows where I am always though. I think there is merit to the theory that she's obsessed with me and doesn't want people to know and kind of is trying to throw me on the backburner. It's just the whole situation has been weird. When we did have sex, she was INCREDIBLY sweet. She and I had a heart to heart about the 'demons,' and I told her "I shouldn't talk to you about it, I'm sorry," which she replied "it is a little scary, but that's who you are, and I want to get to know you, so if you want to talk about it, I want to listen." Sweet, sweet girl. Then when we kissed before she left, I told her 'when this happens again, we are just hanging out, right?' I thought the whole choking incident was under the rug, and that this was going to be an ongoing, secret FWB thing. Looks as if she took me as a notch on her belt and peaced, which is fine, but being as crazy as she is, I'd almost expect her to think "I had sex with him, he doesn't have any interest in me, I want him again." I have another month. It'll probably happen again. She'll have to pursue me.
Archgirl Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 As did I. For me, she had LTR potential, but she just doesn't see me the same way (or, if she does, which there still is a slim chance, she won't ever admit it until it's perhaps too late). I was supposed to be back in the States on Wednesday, but I'm trying to extend my stay until June 2. If she admitted to me she liked me (which she won't), I'd gladly fly back on Wednesday and be with her. She really is the closest thing to perfect for me I've had the chance of almost dating. Fair enough. I'll wait until june then
Estate Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 I think there is merit to the theory that she's obsessed with me and doesn't want people to know and kind of is trying to throw me on the backburner. I'd almost expect her to think "I had sex with him, he doesn't have any interest in me, I want him again." The two quotes above just stood out so much for me. Man, you just don't get it. Wasting my time trying here....
Author lakerman34 Posted April 23, 2013 Author Posted April 23, 2013 Yeah, she avoids me at all costs now. She hated me, we had sex and she was SOOOOOOO sweet to me that night, then she went back to hating me. There is something legitimately wrong with this girl. I'll probably post details later. Gotta go to work. 1
Estate Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 There is something legitimately wrong with this girl.. Holy crap, grow up man. I wouldn't be too keen either with that attitude. This isn't even funny anymore.
Author lakerman34 Posted April 24, 2013 Author Posted April 24, 2013 Holy crap, grow up man. I wouldn't be too keen either with that attitude. This isn't even funny anymore. OK, so it's perfectly normal for a girl to spread rumors that you choked her, ignore the **** outta you after hanging out with you a lot, hang out with another guy, sleep with him, then one random night FAKE being too drunk and sick, come to the guy that you "hate," sleep with him, be such a sweetie, then go back to hating him the very next day? Yeah man. This sounds like something wrong with me, not her.
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