Felt better then I dream about her :(

[Dragi3169]

My girlfriend dumped me 4 weeks ago out of nowhere. I miss her so much but I slowly am trying to move on but then I dream about her and when I wake up I miss her so much I want to contact her and beg her to take me back even though I know she probably wouldn't . I did everything for this girl gave her everything I had but it wasn't enough for her apparently .

[guysmily25]

The dreams come and go dude. I had one a few nights ago and felt similar to how you feel now, but I've been broken up three months. If you've said all you could to try and talk her out of it, only she can change her mind now. Play video games before bed, maybe you'll dream about that instead.

[BigTuna]

It's the ****tiest thing in the world. I had a really vivid dream about my ex, like I was actually there next to her, the most lifelike dream I've ever had, then I woke up in sweat. We've been broken up 4 months, no contact 4 months & I thought I was getting better. Feel like **** today though.

[Navajo46]

I hear ya man. I'm almost at 5 months and that is one thing that still haunts me. You cannot turn your brain off and control what you dream. I find myself doing the same thing... having a vivid dream that will wake me up and then I am either mad or missing her. I hate it.

 

Hang in there bro.

[Dragi3169]

Thanks guys its good to know I'm not alone in this

[Jord11]

I'm 55 days nc she broke up with me also out of nowhere i gave her my everything to make her happy, it sucks but I guess it wasn't enough I also had a dream of her woke up missing her all day, sucks so much when you put in so Much effort and they dont even appreciate it

[crederer]

I have dreams of my ex now and then. Broken up about 7 weeks now. Everytime the dream is us getting back together and feeling so happy and me just holding her. Then I wake up and realize it was a dream and feel really bad. It's happened three times. It happens usually at 2 or 3 am and I can't get back to sleep and just keep replaying the dream over and over in my mind.

[maiden555]

It's been a few months for me. yesterday I had a great day and then I had the most vivid dream. I traveled a long distance in an unfamiliar area to find him, we reconciled and hugged and all was right with the world.

It was SO vivid and really messed me up.

[atarisboy86]

I too just had a dream of my ex...but use it to your advantage!

 

My ex and i had intimacy problems...I was higher drive and she was lower drive. It was a chore and argument any time sex came up....in the dream, i was struggling with my partner (i couldn't make out if it was her or someone else) to have intercourse...trying foreplay, etc, etc and being rejected...it mirrored what had happened in our relationship (one of many other issues)

 

I know subconsciously I didn't like the situation that I was in...and like in the dream, I wouldn't want that to be my reality ever again with any girl. It's a lesson learned. Use your dreams to your advantage to analyze why it didn't and work work. Hope this helps.