smint Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 Long story short,I was in long relationship,7 yrs,left for another one year ago,then I was rebounding and I was alone for some time,now I went aboard to look for a job and met one guy.We saw each other only 4 times,but we are in every day contact for one month.Last time we saw each other,he tried to have sex with me,but I wasn't interested and we were just watching movie. Later I told him that I am not looking for adventure,sex,I am looking for somebody serious,I want to fall in love again.He answered me this: "I enjoy your company and for me that's enough for now. I don't know what future brings. And ı m not offering u anything but my company.We are fair to each other. We know what we want. I don't want to hurt anybody and ı also don't want to get hurt. Lets enjoy each others company for now, then we will see." I found a job,but I am waiting for my working visa to be over.So I came back to my country.Now he will take some days off because he wants to come to my country now to see me for few days.He already booked flight ticket and hotel.I wrote him today that I will show him my city,but I can't meet him with my parents,I mean I can't take him at my home.And he answered me: "we will just have good time together,that's more then enough,I am coming there to meet you.Look,we had a deal,right?We will just enjoy our company." So what do you think???I don't want to be pushy,but I like this guy,and he looks serious.We don't know each other good,we only saw each other 4 times,but is he telling me that he doesn't want relationship at all,just to have good time together or after time we will see???Because I have no more time and energy to waste on wrong people.For any opinion I will be greatfull!!!
Cutiepie1976 Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 You clearly know the answers already, but here goes... We saw each other only 4 times,but we are in every day contact for one month.Last time we saw each other,he tried to have sex with me,but I wasn't interested and we were just watching movie. Later I told him that I am not looking for adventure,sex,I am looking for somebody serious,I want to fall in love again.He answered me this: "I enjoy your company and for me that's enough for now. I don't know what future brings. And ı m not offering u anything but my company. Translation: I'm not looking for anything serious. I just want something casual. Hoping to get some action out of you, but I know there's no guarantee. Happy to stick around and see if you change your mind and allow something casual. We are fair to each other. We know what we want. I don't want to hurt anybody and ı also don't want to get hurt. Lets enjoy each others company for now, then we will see." Translation: We've both been upfront about what we're looking for. If you do change your mind and decide to have sex with me, don't expect anything more than sex and a casual encounter. Don't turn this into a demand for a relationship with me or claim to be hurt. I promised you nothing, other than my male company for the moment. And he answered me: "we will just have good time together,that's more then enough,I am coming there to meet you.Look,we had a deal,right?We will just enjoy our company." Translation: Of course I don't want to meet your parents! We had a deal--no commitment, no promises, no expectations. A personalized tour of your city and hopefully some no-strings-attached sex if I play my cards right is perfect. That's what I came hoping to enjoy. So what do you think??? Is this a trick question??? I'm wondering why you're still engaging with a man who's been crystal clear that he has no intention of agreeing to a relationship or commitment, but thinks he can charm your moist panties off into being an easy lay, and a tour guide to boot. You will have no one but yourself to blame when he disappears into thin air and stops returning your phone calls after he gets what he is clear he came for. I don't want to be pushy,but I like this guy,and he looks serious.We don't know each other good,we only saw each other 4 times,but is he telling me that he doesn't want relationship at all,just to have good time together or after time we will see???Because I have no more time and energy to waste on wrong people.For any opinion I will be greatfull!!! Serious?!? Serious about what exactly...other than to have an orgasmically good time with you on his trip? 1
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