MadKurlz Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 So my nonaffectionate boyfriend said to me a few days ago that I was being to clingy! WTF! Maybe it has to do with the age diffrence which is not so bad. He is 24 and I am 30. I love jumping on that man and showering him with kisses and hugs, and he comes out with saying that im too clingy. Maybe its because i want to feel like someone is affectionate towards me? Or could it be the age thing with him? My exhusband left me in December and we got divorced in February. He was an affectionate man, we were married for 5 years. Maybe its just that Im soo used to my Exhusband.
tiki Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 Oh that just freakin sucks. Sometimes you've got to find someone more compatible in the area of affection. I had never really practiced affection to the extent that I do now with my fiance. Can he get used to it, ya think? How long you guys been dating? And does clingy mean over affectionate? Sorry, I'm out of the loop.
Adunaphel Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 Does he *always*act in such a non-affectionative way? Does he *usually* like kissing/hugging? Were there people around or were you in some place where someone could see you? Some people just hate showing affection in public. Does he act that way even when you are together at home, and he is not working/cooking/watching the news/studying/doing anything that requires his full attention? Was this a single episode? Does he ever initiate kissing/cuddling? Was it the very first time he called you clingy?
kellyp1 Posted September 20, 2004 Posted September 20, 2004 Each one of us is different. My ex fiance hated when we laid together on the sofa. He wanted me in my corner while he was in his. This guy I was just dating was the opposite. He enjoyed having me in his arms whenever possible. I found the second way worked much better for me. It's up to you if that stuff is a deal-breaker with this guy though. How important is it to you?
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