Sox Man Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 I'm in need of some serious advice. I had a woman move to my city, and works on my hospital floor. That was 2 years ago. Fast forward a year, and she got seperated from her husband. I was foolish, and we started going out after work for dinner and drinks, then it became more, we got involved physically. Then, all of the sudden after "dating" for a few months, she tells me she's not ready for a relationship, but then kisses me the next morning on my way out of her house. After this, we stopped going out, she would have others over from work, and I wasn't invited. My feelings were really hurt. The odd things is, at work she would pick and flirt with me. She would get mad if I didn't speak to her at times. Now comes the difficult part. She texted me last week and told me she's moving away to take a new job, but made it sound like she would be back to visit, and that I could visit. Some people have told me I should tell her how I feel, but why? Will it really make a difference? She's made her decision. I wish we could be friends, but I'm not sure I can do that. She's not leaving for another 2 months or so. I have 10 more weeks or so of pure hell. I don't want to talk to her, I don't even want to see her again. I know that sounds odd, because I love her with all my heart. I really thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with her! How do I say goodbye? How do I let go? I wish I'd never see her again. My heart is so broken. I can't eat, I can't sleep. Am I the only man that has these kind of emotions? Some good sound advice would be greatly appreciated.
lynn1954 Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 I'm so sorry that you're in such pain from this unhappy situation. At work, try stay away from wherever she is. If you must be in the same place at the same time, just be kind and courteous. You can get through this one day at a time.
Author Sox Man Posted April 15, 2013 Author Posted April 15, 2013 Funny thing is my family has a vacation house close to where she's moving, and it's only an hour and a half from where we live now. She says she'll be here a lot, and I could visit, but I wont be there for a while.
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