KikiDeMontparnasse Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 Hi everyone! I'm new to this but I am in desperate need for some advice... And please do not mind my language because I'm from Belgium. I know it's a long read but bare with me please. Well, two years ago I met a nice, good looking guy through my best friend and we hit it off and started dating. I had a lot of fun with him but our relationship only lasted 3 months. In those 3 months I met his family and friends and also his best friend who I found very cute but I didn't do anything with it because you just don't dump someone for his best friend... So after we broke up I started texting with his best friend for some time and we fell in love... But because of my ex we couldn't be together, he wouldn't accept that so we were in love with each other for 8 months before my ex finally said it was ok because he saw his best friend suffering because he couldn't be together with me. So we finally started dating. We were absolutely crazy about each other! I have never felt like this before en neither has he.. But I had some relationships before him that also included sex but he was still a virgin (23 yrs) so I was his first one and he always said that he was so glad that his first time was with his first true love and that he loved me very much. We were a perfect match.. We loved each other very much en were always there for each other. We got along with each others families and friends and everyone thought we were the perfect couple. We fought sometimes, mostly my fault but we always talked it out. He even cried everytime we had a fight. A couple of months ago we had a huge fight and I wanted to leave. He litterally begged me not to on his knees while crying so I stayed and we talked it out and everything was ok. The last couple of months we have been seeing a friend of ours a lot ( a girl). She was also together with his best friend (after his relationship with me). But they broke up because he was jut sick of her and we didn't see her sometime but then I started contacting her and I thought she was a very sweet girl and brought her back into our group of friends. Since then, she came to our place everyday! Without even calling to ask if she could come over, she just came! But it didn't bother me so much.. We became very close friends. She was there also everytime we had a fight and she always tried to help us with it. She was there for me and for my boyfriend. Little did I know that she didn't care about me, she was only after my boyfriend. We have been together for 1year and 3months. So the 16 feb (this year) he said he had a surprise for Valentine's and he would come and pick me up after work. So I had done working and he was there to pick me up. When I got in the car he didn't even look at me and I knew there was something wrong so I asked him if everything was ok and he burst out in tears. He said he couldn't do it anymore and that he didn't love me anymore. I asked if there was someone else he said there wasn't. So that night I was devastated and that good 'friend' of mine didn't even text me if I was ok but she knew he broke up with me. That's when I realized that se just wanted me out to be with him. And now they're together.. And they have been together 2 weeks after he broke up with me.. It's now 2 months.. It hurts like hell and I see these posts of her on FB about him and I know she does it on purpose just to hurt me and it's working!! I think I'm gonna die.. Some info about her: She doesn't have any friends or family ( lot of people hate her, now I understand why), she didin't finish school, she doesn't have a job and she really isn't good looking... My ex even hated her, he thought she was ugly and stupid and lazy but now he's in love with her and I know he's in love with her because she was there to support him when we had a fight so she was the caring, sweet girl and I was the bitch and he now probably thinks that if he's with her, he won't have the same problems as with me.. Can someone please explain to me how this could happen? I know for sure that he loved me and I think he still loves me but the bitch manipulated him into thinking he is better off with her... This is a sign of GIGS i think and I want to ask you guys if you think he'll come back when he sees she's still the same annoying, ugly bitch she used to be when the honeymoon phase is over? Thanks for reading!
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