Jord11 Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 Just curious if she will ever contact me again, ugh
Echo000 Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 day 81 no contact holmes..although she reached out just before 70 days with an email that didnt say much or give much to respond to. Easier said than done, but you cant be hoping for something you got absolutely ZERO control of. Let the chips fall where they may. Keep. Working. On. You.
uniqwa Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 (edited) Have you ever just stopped to think that it was your ex's insecurities that drove her to her actions towards you? DID you ever just once think and feel remorse? I feel sorry for her, someone who can't love and feels afraid that they will be let down so they push what they love away.. Logically viewing her actions that is what she seems to have done. YOU don't have to complain about her contacting you... She will do that in time. Hell in time she'll love another man a million times better because she learned a valuable lesson with you... The begging, the contacting you.. take my word for it.. Take LOGIC into consideration.. that will END... Time will change her perspective. Time will change her.. NOW whatever you loved and admired in your ex I seriously hope that makes you less of a dreary person towards her contact.. IF anything SHE pushed you away because she did not find stability within herself, emotionally speaking.. otherwise she wouldn't be trying So freaking hard to fight for something that's gone. Edited April 14, 2013 by uniqwa
Thunderchild Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 Have you ever just stopped to think that it was your ex's insecurities that drove her to her actions towards you? DID you ever just once think and feel remorse? I feel sorry for her, someone who can't love and feels afraid that they will be let down so they push what they love away.. Logically viewing her actions that is what she seems to have done. YOU don't have to complain about her contacting you... She will do that in time. Hell in time she'll love another man a million times better because she learned a valuable lesson with you... The begging, the contacting you.. take my word for it.. Take LOGIC into consideration.. that will END... Time will change her perspective. Time will change her.. NOW whatever you loved and admired in your ex I seriously hope that makes you less of a dreary person towards her contact.. IF anything SHE pushed you away because she did not find stability within herself, emotionally speaking.. otherwise she wouldn't be trying So freaking hard to fight for something that's gone. To quote a famous philosopher - "I am not responsible for someone else's perceptions" - they have to own them and take responsiblity for them themselves.
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