myheart02 Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 I met a guy about 3 weeks ago. We hung out and could talk forever. I mean it was an instant connection with him. I wasn't pushing anything but I knew I wanted to see him again. He went away for a week and called me everyday like 2-3 times. Nothing weird just fun conversation about his trip and just about everything. Then it happens...he invites me to a party for Labor Day. I totally wanted to go but he ends up getting sick. I called him the day of the party to see what was going on and he sounded horrible. In my mind I didn't want to be a burden because I know how it is when you are not feeling well so I told him since he was sick don't worry about me just get better. After that day communication on the phone has dwindled. I know he is interested because we still e-mail each other but it is not the same as it was before. Do you think that he is was kind of hurt that I didn't go? Maybe wanting to introduce me to his friends so now he is backing off a little? Just looking for opinions on this one. I haven't called him but just talked through e-mail. It is like he is playing a little hard to get now but only after that day. Help me understand? Thanks
Author myheart02 Posted September 16, 2004 Author Posted September 16, 2004 He did end up going to the party but only staying for just a little bit.
Naive Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 Ok, so maybe he was real sick, but wanted to see you so bad that he did not care and then when you were being thoughtful and considerate he really took as uninterest in your part. That has happen to me before. Maybe he thought that you did not care to see him as much as he cared to see you. You should ask him and get things cleared.
Butchey Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 Your intentions were well placed but he may have misunderstood. Ask him about the party and how he feels. Be honest. If you want a good relationship start out on the right foot. Honesty.
Author myheart02 Posted September 16, 2004 Author Posted September 16, 2004 Well we did talk. I asked him if anything was wrong and that I notice he has been acting a little different. Of course I should of brought up the party but I was to scared to He told me everything was fine and not to worry that he was under a lot of stress just with wedding stuff (he is in 2 of his friends weddings which are coming up) and work. To me I think it might be to late to bring up the party but he knows that I know something is off. He told me that he likes me and enjoys hanging out with me. I guess only time will tell?
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