Sunnydays4 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 My ex boyfriend and I were together for about 9 months. We had a great relationship, barely fought, took trips together, could talk about anything, and it seemed kind of perfect. We took a trip about a month ago to visit some friends. After the return from the trip he was being cold and short with me. I asked him if we were okay and he said yes and that he had a lot on his mind. So the following two weeks continued with him being up and down with me. I confronted him about it on the phone and asked him what was going on. He said that he had a lot on his mind and it was about us. He felt that we didnt talk or hangout anymore and we had nothing to talk about. He said he didn't want to break up but didnt know how to fix this problem because he didnt know what the issue was. The conversation went into him saying that he needs to focus his time and energy on finding a career. With that I said if that's what you need to do then that's what you need to do. And our relationship ended. I was heartbroken and still am. I haven't heard from him since the break up (two weeks ago) and I'm really unsure on what to do. I would love to get back together with him bc I truly valued our relationship. But I wouldn't even know what to say to him. I also have many things at his house and don't know when it would be appropriate for me to retrieve those items. Any advice or thoughts would be greatly appreciate. I have just been so lost and confused about the whole thing I don't even know what to do next.
Author Sunnydays4 Posted April 13, 2013 Author Posted April 13, 2013 I also don't know if this makes me the dumper or the dumpee.... Which is also confusing.
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