Dragi3169 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Where do I start this is kind of long sorry . Last year I met this girl on POF there was something different about her . She was the coolest and sweetest chick I ever met. Even though she lived 70 miles away it didn't matter I still would drive to see her 3 times a week. The only downside was she wasn't very emotional didn't express her feelings . Her mother just died when I met her so obviously she was very depressed. I tried my best to be there for her I would take her everywhere and buy her whatever she wanted even though she didn't like me buying things for her. Money didn't mean anything to her even though I spent thousands of dollars on her. I fell deep in Love with her and knew this was the person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Before long she was saying she loved me too. I had her meet my kids even and they all hit it off well. My kids fell in love with her and her with them. I was the happiest I ever been in my life we started to talk about marriage even fitting her for a ring. Then on March 13 2013 that morning I bought her a 5 carat engagement ring for 27000 dollars . I booked are trip to Sandals Jamaica . I was gonna ask her in front of the Ocean under the stars. Later that day I noticed somebody flirting with her on FB saying they worked at a club and would get them free drinks . She said free drinks huh ? I called her to confront her about that she said she was joking . I said Baby I got to know that your in this for the long haul I said we were talking marriage and she said yes I am willing to marry you. I'm like your willing? I said don't you understand I love you more then anything ? She said that scares her and that she Loves me she just doesn't know if she will ever love me as much as I love her and she is still young and needs to get herself together she's 23 I'm 29 . She said she wasn't really ready to date and she is gonna end it now not to hurt me later. I couldn't believe it for the first time in my life I know what a Broken heart feels like and it's the worst pain in the world I haven't slept right or eaton right I've lost weight I've cried for minutes at different times. I Love her so much how can she do this to me. She said your my best friend though . I tried texting her but she only replies with one word and never texts me first. And even worse my friend showed me she is on OKCupid though she put on her profile here for friends. I'm so depressed and feel so lonely I don't know what to do? Help please
crispywat Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 I had a simular situation were i split with my ex a few months ago, its hard and she now has a boyfriend and i even work with her.....but you had to let go no matter how hard it is. Start focusing on yourself, thats what she did and she is happy now (my ex) so i have to do the same, i still get times in the day i think of her and what shes doing etc etc but you had to tell yourself to move on....until you do that nothing will change. As hard as it is you are going to have to quit the texting too
Dadremblvin Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 I know exactly what you should do...Call me! Do you like women in their mid thirties?!?! Seriously, though, if you did all those things for her and she was chatting someone up on FB and a dating site, you should move on. You will find someone who appreciates you...
Author Dragi3169 Posted April 14, 2013 Author Posted April 14, 2013 I know exactly what you should do...Call me! Do you like women in their mid thirties?!?! Seriously, though, if you did all those things for her and she was chatting someone up on FB and a dating site, you should move on. You will find someone who appreciates you... Lol thanks funny enough that's what I keep hearing she didn't deserve you and you could do so much better. IDK? I just feel like the one thing I was sure about was a her and I have know idea how I can ever get over her ? Even now I'm checking my phone to see if she messaged me . Starting yesterday I promised I'd go NC . But I so desperately want to talk to her I miss her so much. This is torture
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