RiceaRoni Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 It kind of pains me.... The fact ill never get to talk to him again or speak with him. 3
thefooloftheyear Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 I hear you... This is the part of NC that kills everyone...Truth is you probably will talk again, but maybe not what you want to hear which is worse of course.. Hang in there, kid.. TFOY 1
richard9 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 It kind of pains me.... The fact ill never get to talk to him again or speak with him. Agree it a painful thought, but I think it would be even more painful for me to know of the guys she has been with since and the fact shes doing fine without me, to learn that I was replacable, I think that would be more painful. I would rather not know. 3
Compromize Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 After going on a date last night, I miss my ex 1000 times more today and want to reach out to her so fu#king bad right now. But I know it will do no good. It kills me inside that I will not talk and laugh with her again. 1
richard9 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 After going on a date last night, I miss my ex 1000 times more today and want to reach out to her so fu#king bad right now. But I know it will do no good. It kills me inside that I will not talk and laugh with her again. They can never come close to our ex's can they. I was going to say that yhe relationship with pur ex's developed and wasnt there at first meet so give it chance. But then I remembered the first time I saw my ex's I almost fell for her right then and there lol and ive never met anyone like that in my life. Shame she changed and became anyones girl lol
Waz Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Well you are right. It's the emotional part. On the other hand, knowing that if you talked to them, they would be far more different than the old times you were used to, may make you believe that it's better you don't talk to each other because you don't like this. So, what do you prefer? 1
CompleteFailure Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 It kind of pains me.... The fact ill never get to talk to him again or speak with him. I can't even imagine the pain that comes with never communicating with my ex for good, yet almost every minute I spend with her pains me to a degree that seems just as unbearable. I admire the strength a lot of you guys on LS have. Agree it a painful thought, but I think it would be even more painful for me to know of the guys she has been with since and the fact shes doing fine without me, to learn that I was replacable, I think that would be more painful. I would rather not know. You would be right, it is definitely more painful knowing.
Am4Real Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 I can relate to you all - I really can. As posted in one of the threads above, if "WE", that is anyone of us try to reach out and are successful, it's a near guarantee the conversation, the tone and so on will never be what we were once used to hearing. The more likelihood is that we will be met with utter silence as they dreadfully listen to us hoping we get the hell off of the phone. I bet the above paragraph has happened to some of you before? Tell us about it if it has!
may_girl Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 I can relate to you all - I really can. As posted in one of the threads above, if "WE", that is anyone of us try to reach out and are successful, it's a near guarantee the conversation, the tone and so on will never be what we were once used to hearing. The more likelihood is that we will be met with utter silence as they dreadfully listen to us hoping we get the hell off of the phone. I bet the above paragraph has happened to some of you before? Tell us about it if it has! Yeah, it happened to me. My ex ignored me when I tried to reach out for contact after 2 months NC. I pushed him to the point where he felt compelled to talk to me after I told him I never wanted to hear from him ever again...So I suppose he didn't want to have that guilt and we had a phone call - it lasted 2 hours but it was painful. He sounded so different and was not at all interested to hold the talk. It felt like a chore for him really... And that was the last time I spoke to him Won't be doing it again that's for sure 1
Damaged23 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Its painful now, but i know one day it wont't be. I dont even remember the sound of his voice anymore. It's just a matter of getting used to it, that's why we must keep NC. It gets better!! 1
na49 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 You can talk to him if you want. You can call him or text him and ask him how his life is, what he's doing with his girlfriend tonight and be friends. Or not. Stay strong RR!
notsosuperman Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 (edited) I remember being where you are now! I was dumped by someone I thought I NEEDED in my life to be happy. The fact that we went (and still does) to the same school, did not make it any easier for me to get over her. As time has passed, I bumbed into her several times, where she would look at me like "say hi", but I didn't. She was the one that wanted NC for a while, for us to move on, she got that. And now, I am never going to talk to her again. I'm ignoring her, and that has helped me A LOT. After this summer, when I am done, I am moving away to start my education and I am never going to talk to her again. Why? Because f*ck her, that's why. Nah.. I'm not mad at her, I don't wanna be. But I got no reason to speak with her. I hope you will get to the same point.. Good luck! Edited April 14, 2013 by notsosuperman
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