Ryan_B Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 My ex left me 2 months ago and I think about her every day and night. I still love her and would do anything to be back with her (It can't happen so I don't want anybody telling me how to get her back etc). I love her as much now, as I did for the 7 months we had together. I had plans to go out with a few mates Tonight, but they can't go out now due to family problems. I know this will sound stupid, but this has thrown me over the edge. I'm sitting here just thinking how much I would love to be with my ex Tonight and how I would be with her right now had she not have ended it. I keep picturing myself with her and it's cutting me up that I aren't with her still. It's been 2 months and it's not any easier, I still constantly think about her and dream about her most nights andwhenever I'm alone (like Tonight) I think to myself ''I'd be with her right now, out in a pub, on a drive, round mine or hers etc, having a lovely evening and will be staying with each other all night'' but now I feel lonely, empty and down 99% of the time
richard9 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 I know what you mean, its when you're alone surrounded by four walls with nothing to take your mind away from the pain, these are the hardest times and you have to try find that inner strength to get through them. Write lists, write things down about all the bad things that happened in the relationship, write down your thoughts and feelings and what you can do to change your situation, write down plans for the future, even write down a plan for tomorrow, just write, it helps. Also although your friends cancelled this time there will be other times, you are lucky in one respect to have friends to go out with. Take the initiative and plan another night out for you and your buddies. Relax and give yourself time. Hope this helped a little bit.
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