Sweetnothing Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 I know I just posted but over the last few hours I've found myself becoming extremely angry about my ex ignoring me. It's only been 3 days but this is the longest we've ever gone without talking and I texted him yesterday morning informing him that it's my day off and asked if he could call me. NO reply!!! I sent him another text last night apologizing for flipping out at him when he dumped me. Still nothing. Now I'm getting really angry. I was SO nice to him. The whole reason we broke up was because I felt like he didn't care about me. Now he's ignoring ME? Wtf!!! I didn't smother him in our relationship I gave him plenty of space and let him do whatever he wanted and when I dumped him for being a d*ckhead he apologized profusely telling me he realized he was treating me badly and promised to change and I took him back and he just turned around, kept being an *sshole, dumped me, now HE'S ignoring ME!!!!! The more I think about it the angrier I get. I'm here upset and trying to reconcile and he's probably with his goonhead friends not even THINKING about me. I feel so angry and hurt!!!
almond Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Your anger is a normal reaction, but you need to leave him be. It sucks, but he broke up with you because he doesn't want to be with you. Either way, it doesn't matter who broke up with who. It seems like you're angry that he broke up with you, not the other way around? Anyway, you need to keep your dignity and hold off on making yourself look desperate. By acting all crazy, you are just assuring him that the breakup was the right choice. Initiate NC, call some friends or family to hang out with, and have a good cry about it all. He is in the past now. Focus on moving on.
KatZee Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 The whole reason we broke up was because I felt like he didn't care about me. when I dumped him for being a d*ckhead he apologized profusely telling me he realized he was treating me badly and promised to change and I took him back and he just turned around, kept being an *sshole, dumped me, now HE'S ignoring ME!!!!! I'm here upset and trying to reconcile... So basically he wasn't treating you right, you broke up with him because of it, he then said whatever he needed to say to get you back, continued not treating you right, and then basically dumped you to punish you for dumping HIM. And you're trying to reconcile why? This guy's not interested. He wasn't even interested when he was dating you. It hurts and your ego is bruised but you can't be so desperate to be with someone who's not even treating you right... right? 1
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