NYC-BigKat Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 She sold me some comic books last tuesday & she put a cute pic of herself with the package & a phone number so I called her. Um...she sounded kinda geeky but she was nice & I asked her if that was really her & she said yes so we met in queens where she lives & went to the movies. She's really cute & dressed nice with a tube top & a open button shirt since it was warm that day u know. She says she meets guys off ebay all the time & she wants to meet again tomorrow. I feel so happy & I cant believe she likes me . A ebay girl? Do u think she might be a weirdo though?
january2011 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Do u think she might be a weirdo though? Wouldn't you be the best person to judge since you've spent some time with her? As you mentioned, this is her MO and she, "meets guys off eBay all the time." If you like her and enjoy her company, then why not continue to date? If you experience any "weirdo" vibes that you don't like, then reassess the situation. And always meet in a public place for your first few dates, if you think safety might be an issue. 2
Art_Critic Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Did you give her positive feedback ? Good for you... just don't ignore any red flags that may pop up, if they do.. 3
carhill Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Do u think she might be a weirdo though? If liking comic books and going out to the movies with someone she met on eBay counts as 'weird', then pot, meet kettle. Or not Have a good time and don't over-think. 2
Author NYC-BigKat Posted April 13, 2013 Author Posted April 13, 2013 Did you give her positive feedback ? Good for you... just don't ignore any red flags that may pop up, if they do.. Yea I gave her positive feedback & she gave me some too so I'm happy but I dont know any girls meeting guys off ebay. It just seems weird & she likes to read spiderman & iron man comic books & likes arcade games. She's 22 so we close to the same age but why use ebay to meet guys? Just seems odd I guess u know.
frustr8ed Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 She's 22 so we close to the same age but why use ebay to meet guys? Just seems odd I guess u know. She's selling comics which she likes to guy's who like comics. Something in common perhaps? 2
january2011 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Yea I gave her positive feedback & she gave me some too so I'm happy but I dont know any girls meeting guys off ebay. It just seems weird & she likes to read spiderman & iron man comic books & likes arcade games. She's 22 so we close to the same age but why use ebay to meet guys? Just seems odd I guess u know. Do you like her? If yes, don't look a gift horse in the mouth. As frustr8ed wrote: she's into comics, you're into comics. You have something in common. Go with it for now. 1
foreverandalways Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Yea I gave her positive feedback & she gave me some too so I'm happy but I dont know any girls meeting guys off ebay. It just seems weird & she likes to read spiderman & iron man comic books & likes arcade games. She's 22 so we close to the same age but why use ebay to meet guys? Just seems odd I guess u know. If it's working for her... Plus, since none of us other girls have ever really thought about doing it, she's got her own personal online dating thing set up and doesn't have to compete with other women! 1
chex Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 If it's working for her... Plus, since none of us other girls have ever really thought about doing it, she's got her own personal online dating thing set up and doesn't have to compete with other women! Yeah it's really kind of brilliant o3o and mysterious I'd say keep going with it
Keenly Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Do you like her? If yes, don't look a gift horse in the mouth. As frustr8ed wrote: she's into comics, you're into comics. You have something in common. Go with it for now. DO look a gift horse in the mouth. Trojan horse anyone?
january2011 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 DO look a gift horse in the mouth. Trojan horse anyone? The OP called her and asked her out. He made the first move. They've already been on one date, with a possible second date in the pipeline. It's not like they were at war and she offered a gift (with a hidden trapdoor) to appease him. While her method of meeting guys seems unusual, we don't have any information to suggest that this girl is a "weirdo."
Author NYC-BigKat Posted April 13, 2013 Author Posted April 13, 2013 The OP called her and asked her out. He made the first move. They've already been on one date, with a possible second date in the pipeline. It's not like they were at war and she offered a gift (with a hidden trapdoor) to appease him. While her method of meeting guys seems unusual, we don't have any information to suggest that this girl is a "weirdo." Thats true except for the ebay dating thing . But we're going to a comic book store in the city tomorrow for a convention & she does wear glasses & cute short shirts so she's a combo of geeky/sexy u know but my coworker says she's a weirdo & laughed after I told him how we met. He says girls in their right minds just dont do that stuff.
january2011 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Thats true except for the ebay dating thing . But we're going to a comic book store in the city tomorrow for a convention & she does wear glasses & cute short shirts so she's a combo of geeky/sexy u know but my coworker says she's a weirdo & laughed after I told him how we met. He says girls in their right minds just dont do that stuff. Are you going to let your co-worker's opinion get in the way of a second date with a geeky/sexy girl? Why not just see how the second date goes? You seem to like her so far, so don't see what the problem is.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted April 13, 2013 Author Posted April 13, 2013 Are you going to let your co-worker's opinion get in the way of a second date with a geeky/sexy girl? Why not just see how the second date goes? You seem to like her so far, so don't see what the problem is. I just kinda wanted to know what u guys on here thought. I do care what others think 'cause sometimes they know better so its good to get opinions. I dont wanna be like my uncle who never cares at all what people think of him & look how my family feels about him. I dont wanna wound up like that so its good to know stuff & I'm going to see her tomorrow but dont know what to wear. I dont wanna disappoint her u know .
CryForNoOne Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Dude, it's a great story and she sounds cute. There's now problem here at ALL!!!
ChatroomHero Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Thats true except for the ebay dating thing . But we're going to a comic book store in the city tomorrow for a convention & she does wear glasses & cute short shirts so she's a combo of geeky/sexy u know but my coworker says she's a weirdo & laughed after I told him how we met. He says girls in their right minds just dont do that stuff. She likes comic books, you like comic books. She meets guys off ebay, you apparently meet girls (her) on ebay so I'm confused now, are you asking if she is a weirdo or if you are a weirdo? You would consider her a weirdo for doing the exact things you do? That is weird. 2
Radu Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 She sold me some comic books last tuesday & she put a cute pic of herself with the package & a phone number so I called her. Um...she sounded kinda geeky but she was nice & I asked her if that was really her & she said yes so we met in queens where she lives & went to the movies. She's really cute & dressed nice with a tube top & a open button shirt since it was warm that day u know. She says she meets guys off ebay all the time & she wants to meet again tomorrow. I feel so happy & I cant believe she likes me . A ebay girl? Do u think she might be a weirdo though? How much was she ? I hope you didn't overpay. Had to do that, who meets girls [or guys in her case] off ebay. That being said, what do you care what other ppl say. Girls who enjoy comic books are not that many, and it's probably something you can talk about. Go for it. 1
Lst11 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 If you feel comfortable with her so everything is OK:)
Author NYC-BigKat Posted April 14, 2013 Author Posted April 14, 2013 She likes comic books, you like comic books. She meets guys off ebay, you apparently meet girls (her) on ebay so I'm confused now, are you asking if she is a weirdo or if you are a weirdo? You would consider her a weirdo for doing the exact things you do? That is weird. No no I dont meet girls from ebay only her 'cause she put a pic & a number with the package that said to contact Emily if there's any issues so since she was cute I went ahead to do it u know. Its just my coworker thinks its weird 'cause regular girls dont meet off ebay. I still like her so far u know so I'm gonna see how it turns out tomorrow. I just cant believe she likes me. She's not picky like other girls & thats really really good .
ltjg45 Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 I like that idea. Sounds pretty neat when you think about it. And like another person has stated, no competition to be worried about. Might as well go for it.
charlietheginger Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 Soooooo the big question is are you gonna drive to see her ?
ascendotum Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 She likes comic books, you like comic books. She meets guys off ebay, you apparently meet girls (her) on ebay so I'm confused now, are you asking if she is a weirdo or if you are a weirdo? You would consider her a weirdo for doing the exact things you do? That is weird. I agree with you as to that part of their interaction. The thing is to her, the OP was some random unknown dude who bought some comic books off her on ebay, and she solicited a date with him sight unseen, by including her photo & number with the comic books (and says she does it all the time). That's a bit unconventional when it comes to a cute girl if you ask me. He's run with it and so far so good. I would have thought it weird when I first saw the girl's note opening the package, but after having met her and gone on a date, I wouldn't be over thinking this much anymore. I wouldn't be getting all dreamy about her though as she sounds like she out for fun with lots of guys. Happy days are here for you OP. Have some fun while she's on the scene. 1
outsidethebox Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 Yea I gave her positive feedback & she gave me some too so I'm happy but I dont know any girls meeting guys off ebay. It just seems weird & she likes to read spiderman & iron man comic books & likes arcade games. She's 22 so we close to the same age but why use ebay to meet guys? Just seems odd I guess u know. Aren't you the one that called her up?
Art_Critic Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 Thats true except for the ebay dating thing . But we're going to a comic book store in the city tomorrow for a convention & she does wear glasses & cute short shirts so she's a combo of geeky/sexy u know but my coworker says she's a weirdo & laughed after I told him how we met. He says girls in their right minds just dont do that stuff. What about guys that do that ? you did.... Go with the flow... it doesn't matter how you meet a girl be it at a funeral, wedding, online, setup.. whatever... Have fun tomorrow....
Author NYC-BigKat Posted April 14, 2013 Author Posted April 14, 2013 What about guys that do that ? you did.... Go with the flow... it doesn't matter how you meet a girl be it at a funeral, wedding, online, setup.. whatever... Have fun tomorrow.... I just finished talking to my uncle & he laughs & says do whatever u gotta do to get laid . I better not tell my mom he said that or she'll pass out! This is a first for me so its kinda weird 'cause I never thought it could happen & its cool but I still wonder why she likes using ebay to meet guys. I gotta ask her.
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