paras1te Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Long story short Girlfriend of 5 years broke up. We lived together for 3 years. Broke up 9 months ago (full nc for 3 months now) I'm now seeing a new girl (think she saw it on fb) EX puts up a picture on her FB of an old vacation of ours. And starts to ask how I'm doing and such. I already know all of the stuff of not checking her FB, and not responding to breadcrumbs etc.. But I don't really care that much so it's ok for me to do so. But knowing that girls are often pretty scared to take initiative(even more now she saw me with this new girl) should I just ask her out and see where it goes ? (friendzone is not an option, but she knows) Or should I always leave the initiative with her and never make the first move (She opened contact though). Please don't just say get over het etc. I already know that and I pretty much am.
ThorntonMelon Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Well, you're seeing someone new. Are you willing to throw it away over someone who dumped you? Secondly if the answer to #1 is yes, I'd be really blunt with her that while you know you would need time to rebuild what you'd had, you're looking for real connection not casual dating, if she's unsure about that you think you guys are best off continuing to wish each other well but not interfering with what you guys want out of your lives.
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