dospod Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 So I met this girl roughly 2-3 months ago, and at first everything was amazing. Our schedule don't work well at all but yet we would always try and find time for each other. Fast forward to the last month and things have changed. I have somewhat scared her off by being needy, I know this is not an attractive trait. She has been sick the last month and just had her tonsils removed , and has been under the weather and therefore has become very pessimestic. She admitted to me one night when I was asking her why the sudden change of heart, and discovered her only other serious relationship in her life ended after her fiance cheated on her (we're both in college), and since then she just shuts people out when things get serious. I called her out on her attitude when she admitted to me last week that she just doesn't care about loosing friends, etc since she has been sick and she changed her story to "I'm never the one to care" along that lines and said it wasn't due to her breakup even though she told me the week before ever since then she shuts people out... She then apologized to me that night , and when I told her I was sorry for misinterrupting everything she responded I had no reason to be sorry leaving me very confused. Fast forward to this morning and she sents me a text asking me if I noticed the only time our conversations have spark is when we talk about cars, and I replied I have been trying but she shoots down every conversation due to her attitude , and I told her we need a break because obviously school, and stress is getting to us (which she said she isn't stressed but then admitted shes only focusing on graduating which has been stressing her out ?!??), then replied "I can see that" , then an hour later responded again with "I'm sorry :'(". I've already told her in the past I'm willing to try , and be faithful , honest, etc.. only if she can give me a sign she's interested. I don't know if she's interested because she acts so cold due to her being under the weather but I know I'm the only guy she ever responds too outside her friends from work. Should I just give her more space, or try and find some way to get to know her better that way I can try and reunite the spark..
veggirl Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 You should start dating other girls because this one sounds like a brat. You shouldn't have to "re-ignite" anything after only a couple months. So yes give her space...and take your own! Let her come to you if she wants, I wouldn't be chasing after her. Focus on girls who are a bit more mentally healthy!
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