Firehead94 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Ok so there is this girl(Not the girls I was talking about in my last 2 previous posts) who lives on the other side of the world from my place(America) and I met her only once when she came to america and studied abroad in our school. But ever since she went back to her own country, we started texting alot like almost everyday and she is the one always initiating the txt too. We also call alot and talk about our everyday lives and stuff like that. And this summer I am planning to visit her place and we are going to spend one whole day together. I think I am in love with her and she is too. Should I ask her out that time? Even if we start dating, I still have to eventually go back to my own country anyway so we wont see each other at all.... how could this relationship work...... plz help And remember, this is not an online dating because we have met each other before
Feelin Frisky Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 A year ago I would have said yes. Now I say chances suck unless you're independently wealthy and can plan impulsive trips without a seconcd thought of cost. 2
Vogeltron Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 It isn't impossible. But you better have madd game even if it is your "girlfriend". Better be able to make them feel like the most special person in the entire world because the literally are a world away. Long distance relationships are very rough even if it is 20 miles or 50 miles or a thousand miles. They all have their obstacles. But from what I have found regardless of wealth etc, when talking to a woman you have to make them feel like they are the most important person in the world, the prettiest woman in the world and show them how committed you are to them. Even if it isn't true in the real world you have to prove to them you believe it. Over and over again. There are some women who are shallow just interested in money etc. Probably wouldn't be even talking to you for a long distance relationship unless they were trying to get US citizenship or something. Just be yourself, tell her what she mean to you and how you feel. For better or worse I think just being truthful will probably make you feel better about it all. 1
justwhoiam Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 Firehead, what's wrong with you? Seriously. It looks like you only see girls when they bump into you, look for you, talk to you... What about the other way round? It's like you're considering girls who might have an interest in you, but what about you? Don't you have interest of your own? If you go on like that, the risk is you'll spend time with girls interested in you, but you might not be in love with them. So what's the point?
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