Gale123 Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 To the ones that are thinking have I said anything to him. NO I am waiting and trying to be safe about this. I have a 9 year old daughter to think about. I don't want to do anything til I find out for shore that he is doing Meth. or cocaine. Everyones help is greatly appreciated. If you think of anything else please let me know.
Barby Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 Have you found anything else? I mean anything that may clue you in better as to what he's using?
SoleMate Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 Is he your husband, or your bf? You've used both terms. Makes a big difference to me. Bfs are a lot easier to get rid of. There is another issue, which I don't think got mentioned. If he is doing any dealing - even phone calls - from your house, you could be in danger of being charged as an accessory. It is possible that law enforcement could find these Loveshack postings and use them as evidence that you were at least somewhat aware of the usage and dealing, and hence an accessory. The laws on meth are very strict. Also...if he's cooking at your place, and even if you avoid fire/explosion, you will have a highly contaminated toxic waste site that will cost you $10,000+++ to clean up. Often they have to scrape the whole house down to the studs and slab - throw away all the drywall, carpeting, bedding, clothing, books, etc. - because they have absorbed or been coated with the nasty stuff. I hope you rent???? Even then, the landlord will come after YOU for damages if your name is on the rental agreement. Bottom line: I would not wait to be sure that he IS using. I would assume that he is, and let him prove me wrong. The risks are just too high.
Author Gale123 Posted September 17, 2004 Author Posted September 17, 2004 I am sorry if I wasn't straight about this. He is my husband, and I own my home. Also to answer the other question I have not found anything in the home. He is losing weight like crazy mood swings, not eating and alot of other things.
Author Gale123 Posted September 17, 2004 Author Posted September 17, 2004 Originally posted by gawdess Is he sleeping? not much at all and he is very restless
Jewelkeeper Posted September 18, 2004 Posted September 18, 2004 Can you just ask him? It certainly sounds like meth or coke to me. Does he have any burns on his hands or mouth? Also black or dirty fingers and/or nails. That's if he's smoking it. Has he ever done IV drugs?? What a scary situation to be in!
gawdess Posted October 1, 2004 Posted October 1, 2004 I have good friends who have used it. If he is using he would be awake for days at a time, not eating, and talking a lot then it is meth. I would ask him...you will know if he is lying to you. Worse case scenario, snoop around and watch what is going on.
Blanked007 Posted October 10, 2004 Posted October 10, 2004 You are going to wait to find out if he has extremely dangerous drugs in the same house where your child eats, sleeps and plays?
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