Dudesmobile Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 (edited) So im dating this girl who wants to make all the moves and its really relaxing and fun. Sometimes it can be a pain in the butt though. I have the confidence to make the moves myself, but I decided not to just because she wants it that way. I don't know why she wants to make the moves. We have been going out for a year and have been consistently seeing each other daily, texting and calling, hugging, kissing on the cheek. We made out three times so far. Why do some girls prefer to make the moves first? I already told her that I would never break her heart. I told her that im down to have sex with her anytime she is in the mood for it. She knows im a virgin and she has been hurt twice before and doesnt want to be hurt again. I'm fine with moving at her speed and respecting what she has to say, her values, and opinions. I respect her as a person and thats why shes with me. I guess the other two guys were douches and treated her like sex objects or maybe have cheated on her in the past. I know it will be worth it in the end because she will in turn have a man whose loyal to her (which i am) and have a man she knows that she can trust and on occasion if it turns her on tell me what i need to do for her that is out of the ordinary in order to get a jump on the intimacy. I am just wondering why some girls prefer to make the moves and go slow? I told her I would wait for her for 2000 years (meaning the rest of my life) if that is what its going to take for her to feel that kind of intimacy with a man again. I really like her for her and couldn't imagine my life without her. I guess I need a hobby. Like in my previous post, I used to be insecure about her going to clubs, but since I have been to one. I am totally fine with her going to clubs and can trust she wont go hop on another guy. So another question comes to mind, besides video games and friends. What can i do to past the time while waiting for my girlfriend to make all the moves? If things totally go south at least this was a good experience plus im only 24 and shes 23. Edited April 13, 2013 by Dudesmobile
PogoStick Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Have fun waiting! A man doesn't have to wait a year to bed a girl. And if a girl really will wait a year then he moves on to someone who's worth the effort. There are already girls out there at least as good as this one, and they're willing to have sex. Sure you don't want to rethink this? In fact, if you told her you are not willing to wait you'd have much better results. "Baby, I love you but I can't do this anymore..."
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