FrustratedGuy91 Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 There is this girl I dated for like 2 months (It never got past making out). Everything was fine, then she suddenly stopped talking to me. I was kinda puzzled but I never asked her for an explanation and just moved on. Now out of the blue, she talks to me on Facebook. I kept a polite but neutral conversation. What should I do here? I have no feelings towards her but, pardon my crudeness, I'd bang her if given the chance. Any advice?
phineas Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 Look she dropped you for another guy & now that he's gone she's testing the water's with you. Wait for her to contact you again & simply ask her "what do want" If she says friends, tell her you aren't interested & cut her off. She says anything else, Tell her " wed(or tonight or the next two days), movie night at my place. Wear something sexy " anything but a yes = you ignore her. She agrees you tell her you'll see her then. The day of or night before you text her to pick up some rubbers on the way. If she doesn't stop talking to you after that then you will most likely be getting laid. But seriously, forget this woman she really has nothing to offer you. The fact that she fell off the face of the earth on you & then acts like nothing happened? EVERY time a woman did this to me she was just looking to waste my time again. 3
Author FrustratedGuy91 Posted April 12, 2013 Author Posted April 12, 2013 So just a "Wanna bang?" out of nowhere?
outsidethebox Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 You're not catching the subtlety of that, not even in same ballpark. He has described a scenario where you are dealing with a girl who went NC on you, then resumed contact out of nowhere. The scenario is actually to run her off but who knows, if she wants to play ball, then play ball. Do exactly as he told you. Re-read carefully, multiple times if that's what it takes. Nowhere did it say "wanna bang?" There is precision in what he said. Apply it.
Author FrustratedGuy91 Posted April 13, 2013 Author Posted April 13, 2013 Oh alright. English not being my native language sometimes I misunderstand some expressions.
outsidethebox Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 yes, none of it is a cute phrase or tricky, will work in any language. Is for only this NC comes back out the blue girl situation.
PogoStick Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 "movie night at my place. Wear something sexy " I agree but no need to make her feel cheap with the rubbers part unless you want to blow it up. 1
Michelle83 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 EVERY time a woman did this to me she was just looking to waste my time again. I especially agree with this... if this is her actions, chances are nothing serious will ever become of this. So see her if you want, but I also agree, don't get emotionally attached.
grkBoy Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Been in his situation before. I agreed with going for the "easy lay" idea, but it shows she can't ever be trusted to be a girlfriend.
phineas Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 "movie night at my place. Wear something sexy " I agree but no need to make her feel cheap with the rubbers part unless you want to blow it up. I see I might not of explained. the purpose is to make this woman go away because she has nothing to offer. Because, chances are even if she agree's I expect her to flake last min then try to seek my attention again at a later date. The rubber's line is to solidify the fact that i'm onto her game & she is DONE wasting my time. Because honestly these types of women will just keep coming back like my ex-wife's bill collector's & it does get annoying. Been in his situation before. I agreed with going for the "easy lay" idea, but it shows she can't ever be trusted to be a girlfriend. In my experience the "easy lay" from a flake turned into a bat-chit crazy stage 5 clinger.
grkBoy Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 In my experience the "easy lay" from a flake turned into a bat-chit crazy stage 5 clinger. I know, but in my experiences, it's more likely she'll say "just a friend" when he asks the first question.
freetolove Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 I really HATE this guy's answer but it's TRUE. If you actually want to get anywhere, no guarantee that you're get anything but at least you know right away. Look she dropped you for another guy & now that he's gone she's testing the water's with you. Wait for her to contact you again & simply ask her "what do want" If she says friends, tell her you aren't interested & cut her off. She says anything else, Tell her " wed(or tonight or the next two days), movie night at my place. Wear something sexy " 1
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