kye1987 Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 There's this guy who works at my favorite coffee shop and has worked there for at least several months. He's recently been giving off vibes that make me think he wants to be more than friends. He smiles at me a lot more, he looks away when I catch him looking at me, sometimes he keeps looking when I catch him too. He has brought up his family a couple times in conversation. Some days he's really quiet and other days he asks lots of questions. He laughs at my jokes and he cracks a lot of his own too. One morning I went in to get my latte and the other barista that was working with him said my drink had already been paid for and I have a feeling it might have been him because when she said it had already been paid for he got this shy smile on his face before he tilted his head to one side and said good morning. He checked me out a few times and before he left when his shift was over he looked right at me before walking out the door. Then today when he was working he looked at me once but other than that completely ignored me. I'm confused. Does he want more than just friends? Or is he just shy?
ses Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 I would take the initiative and casually ask him out somewhere. It's nerve wracking as hell but you're never going to know unless you take the risk.
outsidethebox Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 If able to catch his eye again on his way out door, point outside for him to wait for you and go out to talk to him. If that's not going to work, slip him a piece of paper with number on it and "call me when you get a chance". Either way, when you talk to him tell him you wanted to thank him for the latte the other day and for being so sweet. If he doesn't pick up on that, tell him his gf is lucky to have such a sweet bf. If he's not able to convert that to a date, ask him where he has coffee on first dates, here or somewhere else. Key is to give him a chance to talk to you alone.
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