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What do you look for in the opposite sex?

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Sheilalou008 Established Member

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You have to be funny, witty and sarcastic. I prefer someone who is an extrovert and outgoing. I love to talk, so communication is huge. Looks are not that important, I don't care if he is "hot". I actually like a man who is a bit on the chunky side and has facial hair/chest hair. I like to cook together. I do not mind smoking or drinking, but no drugs.

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AMEN!!!! Please dont steal my husband! Lol Just kidding!!!

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I said I prefer someone like that, it doesn't always work out that way.

 

I would never want to date someone who is vain and all about looks. Every man I have dated has been over 220lbs.

 

Lovely, can't wait to get flamed!

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Sheilalou008 Established Member

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AMEN!!!! Please dont steal my husband! Lol Just kidding!!!

 

 

No husband stealer here. I like men who are not attached in anyway.

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I said I prefer someone like that, it doesn't always work out that way.

 

I would never want to date someone who is vain and all about looks. Every man I have dated has been over 220lbs.

 

Lovely, can't wait to get flamed!

Hehe....I think the person you were replied to was more joking than anything. What they said was true but it seems tongue in cheek sorta...lol

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Hehe....I think the person you were replied to was more joking than anything. What they said was true but it seems tongue in cheek sorta...lol

 

Never know around here...

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Generally speaking... I like women who are introverted, smart, kind, a little wild, unique, logical, tolerant, agnostic, and open to new ideas.

 

Physically thin or curvy are ideal.

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ForeverHopeful1 Established Member

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I wish you well in this thread.

 

Be advised, you just offended a large majority of the introverted and non-outgoing male posters who dwell here.

 

 

Believe it or not, you will be called a liar and told you only care about looks. The guy must be 6'4' with six pack abs or else you can't / won't be interested. Whether he enjoys cooking together, has facial/chest hair doesn't matter to you or not and immaterial.

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You sound just a little bitter. I find it extremely odd that people would be offended by this. I mean, really? Should I be offended that not every single male would want a blond, 5'4'', 120lb woman? Just so I know what I should be offended by. I cannot for the life of me expect that I am everyones fave or everyones cup of tea. I may be perfect for one person and horrible for another. AND THAT IS ABSOLUTELY OK!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Just because one woman doesnt like an introverted, non outgoing man, they will all have a nervous break down over it? Thats like me saying, Im offended because I read a post about a man "liking only brunettes." Oh my god!!! I would not be offended. That is what THEY prefer. COOOOOOOOOL! I am really sorry if people are offended by this and if they are, they should move to another less offensive thread, I guess. :)

 

I am so sorry you were offended by what SHE LIKES IN A MAN. She was simply asking a question about what OTHERS find attractive in a man. Just because SHE is not attracted to introverted and non outgoing men doesnt mean someone wont. Dont be offended... own the way you are. Its ok to be you! :) Introverted or extroverted, there is someone out there who will love you just the way you are and HER opinion is HERS.

 

What I find really odd too is she literally just told you what she likes, and she will be called a liar for it? Why? There are two of us who like the exact same kind of person and there is nothing wrong with that. I dont like 6'4'' men and I certainly dont like a 6 pack on a man. It is not for me. And that is ok!!! Am I lying too? Lol.

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I wish you well in this thread.

 

Be advised, you just offended a large majority of the introverted and non-outgoing male posters who dwell here.

 

 

Believe it or not, you will be called a liar and told you only care about looks. The guy must be 6'4' with six pack abs or else you can't / won't be interested. Whether he enjoys cooking together, has facial/chest hair doesn't matter to you or not and immaterial.

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You sound just a little bitter. I find it extremely odd that people would be offended by this. I mean, really? Should I be offended that not every single male would want a blond, 5'4'', 120lb woman? Just so I know what I should be offended by. I cannot for the life of me expect that I am everyones fave or everyones cup of tea. I may be perfect for one person and horrible for another. AND THAT IS ABSOLUTELY OK!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Just because one woman doesnt like an introverted, non outgoing man, they will all have a nervous break down over it? Thats like me saying, Im offended because I read a post about a man "liking only brunettes." Oh my god!!! I would not be offended. That is what THEY prefer. COOOOOOOOOL! I am really sorry if people are offended by this and if they are, they should move to another less offensive thread, I guess. :)

 

I am so sorry you were offended by what SHE LIKES IN A MAN. She was simply asking a question about what OTHERS find attractive in a man. Just because SHE is not attracted to introverted and non outgoing men doesnt mean someone wont. Dont be offended... own the way you are. Its ok to be you! :) Introverted or extroverted, there is someone out there who will love you just the way you are and HER opinion is HERS.

 

What I find really odd too is she literally just told you what she likes, and she will be called a liar for it? Why? There are two of us who like the exact same kind of person and there is nothing wrong with that. I dont like 6'4'' men and I certainly dont like a 6 pack on a man. It is not for me. And that is ok!!! Am I lying too? Lol.

 

I was confused as to why I would be a liar. If you asked me in my early 20's if I would like chubby, hairy men I would have laughed. I like a man with some meat on their bones. I am 110lbs soaking wet and prefer not to rub bones with someone. I like a cuddly, chunky man.

 

I prefer what I prefer, I am not saying everyone has to agree or adhere to my likes. Most men I meet do not like red heads, I am dyed red head. I am 5'8", most men don't like a taller woman. I don't care. I just like what I like...

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4 limbs and a heartbeat

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You have to be funny, witty and sarcastic. I prefer someone who is an extrovert and outgoing. I love to talk, so communication is huge. Looks are not that important, I don't care if he is "hot". I actually like a man who is a bit on the chunky side and has facial hair/chest hair. I like to cook together. I do not mind smoking or drinking, but no drugs.

 

Well, I guess I am eliminated out of the running from the second sentence.

 

I am 5'8", most men don't like a taller woman.

 

Even at 5'8", I am still taller than you. Much taller. So that's not a problem to me. I like tall girls in a way because they have longer legs... :)

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Creative, athletic, fun, caring, sensitive, openly expressive, fun, thoughtful, faithful, fun, cute, employed, and a nice body.....

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I like a girl who is petite, intelligent, at least physically active, athletic is just a bonus, sweet with a dash of feisty.

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Sarcastic, smart and sexy ;)

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Sarcastic, smart and sexy ;)

Yeesh, you might as well just say my name!

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It's too long to list.I guess things that I look for that are more difficult to find are:

 

 

Artistic, charming (this one is mostly because I am labeled as a very charming woman, so it's nice to be with someone who is the same) similar humor, emotional to the point where he is in your with his emotions and open about them, kind, open minded, deep thinker, has similar views on marriage and raising children, close to family but not attached to the hip, is career driven vs money driven, would rather go to a museum than sit at home watching a football game, active in the outdoors, dislikes confrontation and has a "pleaser" personality, open to stepping out of his comfort zone to try new things, accepting, city man and not a cOuntry man (I love the city and hope to live in it all my life, I couldn't imagine living in the suburbs or country), sees fun in getting dressed up sharply to go out to an event... So many others that have to do with being a long term partner.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

In other words, all the things my man is! Haha

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