Krissy82 Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 i am knew here and so badly in need of some sort of light to get me out of this hole i have dug myself into... COMMITMENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ok the situation is.... I have only had 1 boyfriend and that was for 6years and grew out of love with him 2 years ago (i am now 22 with his son, single mother) recently well about 12 months ago i started talking to this guy... anywas 12 months later we started seeing each other and there was attraction there and then we ended up together boyfriend girlfriend.... at the start it was all good then every time i was not with him i started thinking to myself... "am i doing the right thing by being a relasionship with him" "did i make the right chpice?" "should I end the relasionship?" When I was with him and around him these thoughts NEVER entered in mind it was only when not with him they started to come... I thought to myself well if i am contimplating this as to if i should be with him or not maybe this is not a good idea as me being wioth him not having these thoughts could be bad if i started to depend on being woith him all the time just so i could push these thoughts away I ended up breaking it off still having some feelings there and care for him so much and i hurt him really bad... I dont know what it is where it is coming from and why this is happening, but the thought od "commitment" really makes me push myself away... should i try and over come it and say f it and get back with him as he is awear of this fear i have and work through it together? or should i just let it all go and hope one day it just goes away?? can anyone make sence of this cause I am trying from every perspective and finding myself not getting anywhere.... -Krissy82
aFighter Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 What have you got to lose if you commit? I think you should go for it & if it just so happens that it doesn't wor out in the end well then you tried. On the other hand it could be the best thing that ever happened to you. You'll never know unless you try and if you don't you will be kicking yourself later.
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