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New guy is stage 5 clinger/Speedy Gonzales


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Make sure to keep us updated. I'd love to know what happens!

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I'm glad you were able to get out of that too. It's definitely weird if he wants you to feel sad and lonely (that seems like the beginning of something abusive). "A man who has a lot to offer, wont want to offer it all up so quickly, he'll be cautious too"- totally agree here, and probably why moving too fast in the beginning can be such a turn-off. In my case, I feel like this guy couldn't possibly know me well enough to be so certain we're perfect for each other- he's projecting onto me like crazy.

 

There is probably no point to worry for you. You are very naive. He is just a player and his words mean nothing. That is why he is so easy and comfortable. You have called him speedy Gonzales. You are right that his goal is to make things speedy towards bed. But, when you give him what he wants, his feelings will go down very fast. Perhaps, the love might last about 1-3 nights of sex.

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