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Hey everyone, so this is my scenario. My best friend has a class with this cute guy who she decided to set me up with. She asked the guy if he was single and if he was open to dating and he said yes. She told him that she had a friend that might be interested in him. My best friend gave him my number and he text me. I do not know what he looks like and neither does he. He didn’t ask my gf for a picture or nothing. My gf told me he is a cute guy and I trust that I will like him since she knows my taste in guys.

 

We have been talking for 3 days but it’s not consistent. The problem is that he takes forever to text, even thought he always apologizes when he texts me back. However, that frustrates me a bit. So yesterday my gf had class with him and she told me that he asked her about me. Where was I from? How did she know me? How did I look like? Etc. I was wondering why he would not ask me those questions. Anyways, my gf said that he was texting so she thought he was texting me but he wasn’t. Then she told me she looked and he was texting two of his guy friends.

 

Yesterday that we text, I told him that if he didn’t have any plans for the weekend maybe we could hang out and that was our last message. I want to see him and see if I actually like him so I don’t waste my time and he either but the fact that he takes forever to text makes me anxious and annoys me.

 

Has anybody been on this situation before? Blind dates? If you have, how did it go? He seems like a great guy from what my friends tells me. Let’s see what happens.

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He seems like a great guy from what my friends tells me.

First and foremost - he might be a great guy, but he might not be the guy for you...

 

I've been on lots of blind dates. Back then, there was no texting so it was literally BLIND in that there was no communication before meeting the person.

 

You can't be pissy that he isn't texting fast enough for you. He is an unknown quantity.

 

Meet him. Get to know him. And see if there is anything there worth building on. Until then, texts are just illusive nothings other than what you are building them to be in your head.

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You can't be pissy that he isn't texting fast enough for you. He is an unknown quantity.

 

Meet him. Get to know him. And see if there is anything there worth building on. Until then, texts are just illusive nothings other than what you are building them to be in your head.

 

Yes, maybe once we see each other things will follow thru. I am not able to connect with anybody thru text, things are just to the point and you can't see reactions etc. Hopefully I am able to set something up with him this weekend. Good luck to me. :rolleyes:

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So I text him saying "What are your plans for the weekend? If you don't have anything planned, would you like to hang out?" About a minute later he said "I am going into the interview, I will text you when I get out, sorry." I said "No problem" and I have not heard from him since then :o.

 

I don't understand. He has not even seen a picture of me and my friend even said he asked about me that day when she saw him in class... so what can the problem be? I don't get it. I text him yesterday and he didn't respond.

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So he text me today saying "Hey I am sorry, I've been busy with school since the semester is about to close :\ Also I wanted to tell you that I am going out with somebody. I am really sorry but I would like to hang out with you sometime :)" ------- really? My friend asked him if he was daiting or seeing someone before he talked to me... he iniated the conversation and everything. I said "Hey, don't worry I understand and sure let me know when you would like to hang out :)" ---- then he said "Again I'm so sorry, and yes id love to hang out with you sometime. I'll let you know how its going with my school work" --- I said "don't worry, things happen."

 

Ugh.... :o:sick::eek::mad::lmao:

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