HonestNeurotic Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 50 - - - I'll soon be 53. My husband is 42.
Summer Breeze Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 I'm 197 and he's older than me. But we're really cool. We don't act a day over 125! 6
GorillaTheater Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 A great and humbling reminder that just because I and other men may be 50-ish, doesn't mean we're any smarter than a bag of dryer lint. 2
Spark1111 Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 Hmmmm...at the time of my H's affair, he was 49, 50, and she was 43, 44. Mid-life crisising bag of lint, Gorilla? 1
loredo21 Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 both of us turning 30 at the time of A. boy, must have been a pre-mid life crisis for us both.
Summer Breeze Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 both of us turning 30 at the time of A. boy, must have been a pre-mid life crisis for us both. If it had been a midlife crisis for him it means he's going to live to be 110 or better. I'll evidently be in triple digits.
carhill Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 First go, I was 25 and she was 22. Redux 48 and 45. Roles reversed.
lilmisscantbewrong Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 I'm 51 - Affair started (physically) when I was 47 when it started and he was 33. Interesting twist, huh?
MissBee Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 At the time when it started he was 25 and unmarried but in a LTR and had a 5 year old.
DelusionalOne Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 I'm 51 - Affair started (physically) when I was 47 when it started and he was 33. Interesting twist, huh? Same with me... I was 47 when it started and he was 33.
Act Two Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 I guess I'm an exMW and I'm 40. Stbxh is 43 and exOM is 44. Sadly, we were all in our 30s when this started.
Bailey14 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 When the relationship started he was 18, I was 17.......decades later he is 62, I am 61.
lilmisscantbewrong Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Same with me... I was 47 when it started and he was 33. And the weird thing is when I was 33 and he was 18 I was leading worship at church and he was in he back row and said to my then babysitter "if anything happens to her husband I'm there." My babysitter told me that a few days later and I thought "aww how sweet" but really that was the beginning of "us" when I think about it and he has said so as well. How weird is that?
Mycatsnuggles Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Interesting, OM 30 me 44 when we met. I am surprised there are 2 other women with much younger men posting here. I know he liked my self confidence, it is what attracted him to me originally. We were together more then 2 years. I miss him. Break was mutual.
missy268 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 When we met, my guy was 19 and I was 23 He's now 23 and i'm 27
AnotherRound Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 I was 28 and he was 43 when it started. I am now 37 and he is 52. He had been married for 10/11 years when we started, and they are now divorced after 19 years of marriage. He could be considered a mid-lifer I guess - but I don't really buy that mid-life stuff, it's too convenient an answer to such an array of people and personalities, imo - and excluded all other variables and circumstances. I think there are just a LOT of bad marriages in the world today - and divorce is still kind of frowned upon, and financially difficult to accomplish.
lynn1954 Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 When we started: me=55, him=58 When we ended: me=59, him=62 I was previously divorced before I ever met him. He was married when we met and he is still married.
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