i.am Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 I miss him and I think of him every minute. The battles of my thoughts of wanting him so much and I shouldn't are driving me crazy. I want to let go but whenever I think of the good times, I want him back so much. I known he's not coming back to me anymore. I feel so lonely and unloved....
skydiveaddict Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 (edited) I feel so lonely and unloved.... It's the worst feeling in the world isn't it. When it happened to me it crushed me to the ground, right to my very soul. I didn't think I would ever get over her. But I did, and you will get over him too. Hang in there. You will make it. Edited April 12, 2013 by skydiveaddict
Author i.am Posted April 12, 2013 Author Posted April 12, 2013 It's the worst feeling in the world isn't it. When it happened to me it crushed me to the ground, right to my very soul. I didn't think I would ever get over her. But I did, and you will get over him too. Hang in there. You will make it. I really think I can't. It's so torturous...
h3braica Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 i know the feeling but you will get better soon. be strong.
Damaged23 Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 hey! it sucks, it really does, and it probably will for a while, but little by little it'll get better. Try to keep yourself entertained, hang out with friends, even if you don't feel like it. Think that everything happens for a reason, and there is something better for you out there. You will be fine. Promise
Author i.am Posted April 13, 2013 Author Posted April 13, 2013 I very much want to move on. But I just can't think of what I really want, how to get my own life back. It's so frustrating when I think of what I can do to feel happy, none came into my mind. Feels stuck.
CopingGal Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 i know the feeling but you will get better soon. be strong. Good. Take your own advice. Be strong. It will get better...it may just take a very long time. But eventually you will get there.
Author i.am Posted April 13, 2013 Author Posted April 13, 2013 I feel so stupid. I've been confiding in his sister about my feelings and now the sister is not responding to me.
CopingGal Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Don't confide in his sister. Deep down, you are probably hoping the info will get back to him. Let this person go. Two years ago I felt that my life was over. I was nervous, upset, angry, crying all the time, etc. My ex constantly through the women in my face that he cheated on me with and confessed that the reason why he made such little time for me in the relationship was that he really didn't want to see me that much. In the relationship, he lied, using excuses like being a single father, bogged down with work hours, etc. I wasted 3 years of my life on that jackass. But now, none of the anger and upset even compares to the pity I feel for his current and next victims. This guy lied about everything to me, even his own name. He's sick....sick and twisted. I'm so glad I only wasted 3 years on him and never married him. He even once told me "we were cursed" because things kept getting in the way of us being together. Turns out, he was just lying about everything and had no problem using his poor little son in his lies.. This man turned my life upside down and I had to watch his relationship "blossom" with the woman he cheated with. It was in my face, as I would run into them. Believe me, I was in emotional hell. On top of that, he kept trying to force me to be his friend and pretended like nothing happened. IF I can stay away and go off and start a new life, anyone can...seriously.
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