MsSmurf Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 Wow. Just wow. I finally decide to move on from Mr. Oh-I-Forgot-to-Mention-My-Long-Distance-GF and start talking to an interesting guy. Guy asks me out and then stands me up. I'm seriously too old for this.
Author MsSmurf Posted April 12, 2013 Author Posted April 12, 2013 I'm starting to think its just not worth the effort anymore.
outsidethebox Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 I doubt MsSmurf cares what excuse he gave, but I doubt even more that Mr. Stand Up all of a sudden feels the need to communicate now.
headspinning Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 I'm starting to think its just not worth the effort anymore. That's the problem....it shouldn't be an "effort". I know your clock is ticking, but just do things you like to do, be friendly, and it will happen when least expected.
rocketman122 Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 Didint I tell you that faggy smurf is flaky? I warned you, stay away from him. why didnt you go talk to studly smurf?
Author MsSmurf Posted April 12, 2013 Author Posted April 12, 2013 Did he explain why he didn't come? Actually he did call later to ask me what happened. I was like huh?! Apparently he didn't think we had confirmed plans so he was sitting at home with his thumb up his rear. That makes no sense because we spoke the night before and clearly discussed our get together, the location, the time, and how we were looking forward to it. How is that not a plan? He'd initiated the invitation in the first place and we both consulted our schedules to find a day and time that worked for us. Again, how is that not planning? Then he started mumbling about having a stressful day at work and I pretty much said I didn't care. It was rude not to show up. He could have at least called and bailed last minute, which still would have been rude, but at least I wouldn't have been standing there like an idiot waiting for him. That's the problem....it shouldn't be an "effort". I know your clock is ticking, but just do things you like to do, be friendly, and it will happen when least expected. First of all, there isn't a clock of any kind. And second I wasn't implying that I'm spending my whole life doing nothing but manhunting, that would be silly. I have plenty of other things to occupy my time and grow as a person. However if one desires a lifetime companion there is nothing wrong with making that known to the universe and taking advantage of opportunities to get to know someone that may end up being that someone. If I never left my house and did things I enjoyed or tried new things then I'd never meet anyone at all and would have no one to blame but myself for why I was still single. 1
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