Mary Shadows Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 I've recently started dating again. I met this guy through online dating. He initiated contact with me first, then asked me for coffee. During our meet and greet, he was texting and then asked me for lunch on Monday and never called/texted. Four days go by, and he texts me as if nothing was wrong. He then asks me to come over his house. I agreed. But he never showed that night, and the next day he said he was "in the hospital." He sent me a pic with him in the hospital bed and all. We were texting that day back and forth, then boom he just all of a sudden stopped all contact. What is confusing is that he was the one to reach out to me every time. Why do men initiate contact without the follow through? Is it for the ego boost? Or is this what dating looks like today?
veggirl Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 Hes not truly interested in you but will have sex with you if it is convenient for him, hence at-home suggestion. Forget this guy, he is transparent. If you fk him he will happily fk you but don't expect anything else. When he stops texting or whatever, it's because something better came up. In this case better could just be his favorite TV show started.
Author Mary Shadows Posted April 12, 2013 Author Posted April 12, 2013 Oh, and I forgot to mention that his profile on POF is down. It's like he stopped texting me then boom deleted his profile. He also was asking me for "sexy pics" at like 4am. I did not send any to him at all. It's still painful to hear this. Thank you for your honesty though. i appreciate it.
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