steveT95 Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 What's the best way to deal with missing the ex? I tried thinking about the negatives but I get too angry and stressed. If I think of nothing at all I miss our conversations, I left her house today (after getting my stuff) and all I wanted to do was hang out with her. I haven't wanted that in weeks. I don't really have many friends to surround myself with. I have started talking to a friend that was a mutual friend. But the conversation just isn't the same. I am really missing her.
Noma Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 You have to get out and make friends. It's hard. I'm trying to get back in touch with people, it's hard because a lot if them are in new relationships, makes it hard to have someone to do things with. Any hobbies? Maybe start a new one!
h3braica Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 we're missing each other. he's the dumper, he broke nc to say he misses me i answered back after 2 weeks and he answered again of " miss u still" after 3 days. i didn't reply since then been 2 mos now. i know answering back and forth will only open the line of communication again and would only cause me too much pain. i couldn't bear talking to him again without the usual i love you's like before. whenever i miss him i just cried all night and never bother him to know about it. it's so hard but he removed me from his life without thinking it twice and even said that we will never get back together again. it's as if like i've done a big mistake in our relationship that second chances is not an option. there wasn't a day that i didn't think of him. wish i wouldn't have known him so i won't feel this horrible pain. i always hope that the pain will end each day i wake up. reconnect with old friends it will help a lot not to miss her that much. 1
Author steveT95 Posted April 12, 2013 Author Posted April 12, 2013 Today I am much busier. I made a list last night of things to do so I could set myself to them instead. I keep wanting to just chat with her normally but I know it would make it harder to lose the feelings I have for her. My ex also use to say how she missed me and loved me after breaking up. She didn't like it when I told her that was an unfair thing to say after leaving me. I surprised myself this morning, when I woke up she wasn't the first thing on my mind, I don't think so anyway. If she was, she was a long deep thought like it usually is. Also, I resisted punishing myself like a use to by thinking about the good times and just go on with my day.
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