NicoleB Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 Don't do it! Be sure do give it up to someone you love, and not some loose college girl on some couch at a party. I think you look handsome .
AlexDP Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 Wow, you're actually really cute! I'm a guy but you're kinda hot! It doesn't matter if it's a guy or a girl. If you have sex with him, he won't be a virgin any longer. Maybe give him a buck or two to make him feel real good about himself.
Poppy fields Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 Who you lose it to is overrated I think. You wouldn't be saying that if you lost it on the top bunk of your brother's bunk beds to a neighborhood skater punk. Oh wait... Maybe it is overrated.
ses Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 When I said drunk I meant picking up a "loose" girl at a party. I could have worded things better. You're a cute guy. Don't debase your value by picking up someone loose at a party. Why would you do that? You can wait. It's no big deal. There is no right age to lose it. Acting insecure and feeling like there's a scarlet "V" following you will not attract girls. Young college guys tend to embellish their conquests, and virginity is more common than assumed. You'll feel better when you're relaxed and comfortable. Enjoy college life and dating!
Treasa Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 I know a guy who lost his virginity when he was 15 to a girl who he basically banged along with two other guys, and even though none of them climaxed... (sorry, trying to keep from throwing up) ....all three of them used the same condom. Getting laid isn't always what it's cracked up to be.
Pompeii Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 Don't do it! Be sure do give it up to someone you love, and not some loose college girl on some couch at a party. I think you look handsome . It typically doesn't happen on a couch... Animal House is not a real depiction of college life.
Pompeii Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 (edited) Oh wait... Maybe it is overrated. I think it is. I mean if you're going to do it so many times, why does the first one matter. Some experience is better than no experience in my opinion. Also, of course a lot of college guys exaggerate, but it's not really what you have in your head. It's not a bunch of "bros" hanging out talking about destroying girls or whatever. Some guys may just bump their number up and make the experience sound better than it probably was. But to think that there's a lot of virgins in college, especially upon exit, that would be downright foolish. And to think that the guy didn't get at least some pleasure from the sex is even more so. Edited April 12, 2013 by Pompeii
miss_jaclynrae Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 You look fine. Lol although personality plays a huge part. I dated a 23 year old virgin. He wasn't the best in the looks department but he was a cool guy. The virginity thing didn't mean much. Taking his virginity was interesting but not a deal breaker by any means! It will happen when it's meant to.
ltjg45 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 OP, you look better than me. It is only a matter of time before a female come and take you away.
hppr Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Should I just go to a party on campus and get it done with a drunk girl? This issue is really bugging me. 2 pictures of me: Let me know if I need to change anything ladies. I do work out but I'm more of an ectomorph: Image - TinyPic - Free Image Hosting, Photo Sharing & Video Hosting Image - TinyPic - Free Image Hosting, Photo Sharing & Video Hosting Yes go to as many parties as possible, as far as sex goes if it happens that's fine just be safe.
Revolver Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Sex is like money. It's only an issue when your not getting it/can't get it on command 1
aliqayyum Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 you can make confidence yourself and it might help you 10 Signs Your Crush May Be Eyeing Someone Else
Author Ryan223 Posted April 13, 2013 Author Posted April 13, 2013 Well the school year is pretty much over, I might have to get it done by hitting up a girl at a bar. Or just wait until the beginning of the next year.
Author Ryan223 Posted April 13, 2013 Author Posted April 13, 2013 Sex is like money. It's only an issue when your not getting it/can't get it on command Interesting analogy, but the Jets? Come on man.
Richard Friedman Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 Here's some male advice. Your first time is not gonna be anything special. Most likely it'll be awkward as hell and unsatisfying, no need to build something special in your head like a woman. Might as well get it over with and get some experience so when you meet a girl you really like, you'll actually know what you're doing. Let me tell you something. The guys i know who are the best with women started early got around. After the first few girls they got more confident and had more sucess; didn't hurt that ladies seem to flock to the guys other girls want. It was a big snowball effect. Nowdays they have no problem asking out and closing the kind of beautiful, intelligent "quality" women that good boys hold a torch for. I would say start the ball rolling now because time flies. Also, I've noticed that many broads love to give advice about an ideal guy, and then actually go for someone completely different. Take it with a grain of salt, and go with your intuition and what you observe. 1
Giraffe1 Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 (edited) You are a really good looking guy I'm sure you won't be a virgin for much longer. For me I wanted my first time to be special and it was. Do you want yours to be a drunken encounter or a special experience? Just be patient it's not a race and good things come to those who wait. Nothing wrong with being a virgin at 20. Nothing is wrong with you. It's about finding a girl worthy. Don't just give it to any girl. Meet more women and that will help your chances. And let all that peer pressure go in one ear and out that other. This is your life and choices. Edited April 14, 2013 by Giraffe1 1
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