jinxus Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 I need a bit of advice. I went on a date with a great girl a couple of months ago but it was unfortunately the last one as well because I messed it really up that time. Now it seems that I have a small possibility to get things going again. How to do it? Should I text, send her a message or call her? And if i'm successful where should I take her? I assume that it should be a neutral venue?
Brunettie Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 Call her. How about taking her on a picnic then a walk in the park.
Author jinxus Posted April 11, 2013 Author Posted April 11, 2013 Just writing a message is a bad idea? I just think that I'm not very confident and to make it a bit worse i havent had a lot of contact with her and this might feel a really even more wierd situation than it would be... When should I declare my interest?
CryForNoOne Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 Need more info/context to offer meaningful advice. How did you mess up the first date? What was the last contact? Why do you suddenly have a possibility of getting things going again two months later? 2
Author jinxus Posted April 12, 2013 Author Posted April 12, 2013 During the first one I was just freaked out and did all the wrong things...and tbh it's been bit longer than just two months... I dont suddenly have any chance, I checked the situation and surprisingly I seem to have a really small chance but I just have to act ASAP.
picaso28 Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 I had similar situation on a first date. Was into her too much and too up tight and tense. Personally I haven't bothered to contact her and I wouldn't go on another date even if she asked me. Once I get rejected I think its best to move on as you are always thinking she is not into you because of the first rejection. But if you do really like her and want a second try just contact her any way you feel. Have a plan for a date and text or call her asking her to go on date. Afterall if she likes you it won't matter how you get in touch, just that you did. Good luck!
WhoreyBull Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 You went on this bad date a couple months ago? I'm sorry, but I think she is long gone even if you tried... 1
StanMusial Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 I need a bit of advice. I went on a date with a great girl a couple of months ago but it was unfortunately the last one as well because I messed it really up that time. Now it seems that I have a small possibility to get things going again. How to do it? Should I text, send her a message or call her? And if i'm successful where should I take her? I assume that it should be a neutral venue? Just by reading your posts in this thread, I get the impression that you are just as likely to hose up your second chance. Just move on, find someone else.
Lst11 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 You could take her out to restaurant or cinema. Your place in not bad idea too. With which you are more comfortable.
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