Char Li Posted September 15, 2004 Posted September 15, 2004 Alright gurls, I need some help with this one. Im currently attending a college where my ex boyfriend is going. Normally, this wouldn't be a problem, but he keeps invading my personal bubble. For example, he'll run by and grab my waist, and yesterday, he whispered in my ear during dinner. Needlesstosay, I freaked out and screamed in the middle of cafeteria. My question is a matter of personal opinion. I can't tell if he's trying to flirt, thus eluding to the fact he wants to get back together or what he's doing? Perhaps just being "friendly" I don't know, and would sure appreciate some expert input. Thank you so much for your time and consideration.
254 Miles Posted September 15, 2004 Posted September 15, 2004 I'm a guy, but I'm in college as well and going through a breakup, albeit not with someone at my school. A big question is who broke the relationship off? Would you be willing to get back together? We need more details to help.
Author Char Li Posted September 16, 2004 Author Posted September 16, 2004 Thanks so much for replying. I owe you one! Alright, He broke up with me after a two year relationship. One reason being I was too emotional and one insinuated reason was because he didn't want to grow up so soon. (He had actually told me, out of the blue, that we were going to get married and have kids.) Honestly, I'm thankful because it's given me a chance to grow in other ways. There are those times I want him back, I've actually prayed about it. And then there's those times I just want to forget him. Go figure! Perhaps I'm reading too much into all this. I DON'T KNOW! Thanks for your time, Char Li P.S. Guys are welcome to reply too! Thanks!
Author Char Li Posted September 16, 2004 Author Posted September 16, 2004 Alright, about two weeks after we broke up, he emailed me telling me he missed me. Up until that point I had hated him. (For the fact that he lied about getting married and having kids) We relayed messages back and forth for about two more weeks and then he stopped. So I blew it off as nothing. Come a month later he wrote to tell me he had a new girlfriend, and that she was sweet. I really don't understand how a person can do that to another. I know some of the things I said when he dumped me were mean, but that was during a fit of rage. The only real reason I have to comprehend the motives for such an inconsiderate email is him just wanting to hurt or make me jealous. Am I wrong?
254 Miles Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 He may have been telling you so it would be easier for you to let go. Is he still with the new girlfriend? That would go a long way in analyzing his actions.
Author Char Li Posted September 17, 2004 Author Posted September 17, 2004 No, I found out lastnite that he's single yet again. He actually just got out of a week long relationship. I guess his ex was just a summer fling type thing. Anyways, so yesterday Im talking with his room mate, and he asks me why me and Blaine broke up (Blaine wouldn't tell him.) I told him the reason Blaine gave me. And he said Blaine was just as clingy. And then he goes and tells me that whenever he sees me, he'll tell Blaine and Blaine would get all excited asking where I was, who I was with, and what I was doing, that kind of stuff. So after discussing all this, here comes Blaine into the lobby with another one of his friends. I got extremely uncomfy. Well yesterday was my birthday and somehow that was thrown into the conversation. Blaine was like "Yea, see I remember, see see see. I'm going to get you something." And I just kind of threw my head back and said "OK" Then Tommy says that he thinks that Blaine still loves me, and all this. I really do want to give him a second chance, but I don't know if I should! Help.......thanks so much for all you've done. Sincerely, Char Li
tiki Posted September 17, 2004 Posted September 17, 2004 I think he may want to play with your bubble.
EC Posted September 17, 2004 Posted September 17, 2004 hahahahahaha I think he may want to play with your bubble. bwahahahahahaaha My bubble has been BUSTED hahahaha lol
tiki Posted September 17, 2004 Posted September 17, 2004 Originally posted by EtErNaLlYCoNfUsEd hahahahahaha bwahahahahahaaha My bubble has been BUSTED hahahaha lol We know, we know. Quit braggin. Hooch.
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