TwinkieWinky Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 My boyfriends appartment lease with his ex is finally up and they've been discussing who gets what. They're both moving to different places. She works at convergys and gets free cable and told him that she would change the address over to his new place so he can get free cable. Now don't get me wrong it's free tv, but am I being over dramatic here by having an issue with it. I feel like since she's his ex they should have no more contact with each other besides about their house they're trying to sell. Is she crossing the line about this?
MissIndependant Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 It's perfecty normal for the new girl to be a little jealous of the ex. This is what my partner told me when we started seeing each other a few months ago. So it's all about persepective. If they didn't have a bad break up and are still friends( as my man is with his ex of 9 yrs) then it's something that will keep cropping up. My advice to you, and this comes from experience, is to get your head around it and find a way to be ok with this as soon as you can. There is nothing less attractive and appealing than someone who can't deal with an ex, it's in the past it happened and there is no changing that. And there is NOTHING more attractive than someone who can be cool with his ex. Trust me on this, it will go a very long way towards endearing you to him. Good luck. Just keep reminding yourself, the past is the past and that's where it should stay. Even though they still have contact there is a huge difference between a friendship and a relationship. And that difference is LOVE. If there is no love then there is no anything.
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