tiffwira Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 So a few years ago I met this guy Dave and things progressed incredibly fast. He didnt have many gfs before and was a virgin. I ended up taking his v-card and then it just ended. A simple summer fling. Now years later, we started hanging out again. New years we went to the same party and kissed and then shared a bed and spent the whole night talking. The next day we hung out and it just continued. We ended up going snowboarding on weekends and he was teaching me and holding my hands and everything. Continued hanging out, where nothing sexual has happened again. I liked it, liked having him as a friend. Hes a good guy. Fast forward about 2 months from new years and we still hang out and go to the same parties and I basically joined his core group of guy friends. I also seem to be apart of the group and getting asked to go with them to pubs and things. A few weekends ago, I ended up meeting his family and spent the whole day over there. Later that night we started drinking and he held my hand. That moment then, I grew the feelings back. Or I guess, admitted to them. Because I was in denial for awhile about it cuz I didnt want to ruin things. Took a walk with one of his friends and he was calling me finding out where I am. I had joined a dating site for fun and he always seems to want to check my messages for me and see what the "creeps" say. Always has something to say about all of them. One of my guy friends parents seem to think my guy friend and i are dating and when Dave found out, he immediately said we wouldnt make a good couple. The jealousy seems to be starting.... I also notice that his body always seems to be facing me and he always finds an excuse to touch me, whether its my hair or arm or even boobs at times. He seems to always pay attention to where I am and likes sitting beside me. Some friends of mine find it weird how we havent kissed or anything. Even if we have been drinking. Is it because he just sees me as a friend or is it more and he just doesnt want to rush it because of it ending last time? Any advice be great
perfectlytrapped Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 I think he's into you...just kind of inexperienced and doesn't know how to handle the situation
Michelle83 Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 I think he's into you...just kind of inexperienced and doesn't know how to handle the situation I agree, based on his body language he may be a bit uncertain of how you feel and tentative to make any serious moves, but I'd say from what you're saying he's interested in it being more. But scared of being rejected at the same time.
Silly24 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Well OP...the friendship is over...he clearly wants more. For his sake and your own; you need to decide what you want. Then tell him and move on.
thefooloftheyear Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 I dont know why he isnt going for it. I know I would.. I often wonder how/if people that had a special bond break up, then reconnect after many months/years...Almost seems like once time goes by, then you no longer have that "connection". So, if I am reading this right, you had an intimate relationship with this guy, broke up and are now reconnecting after several years? Please clarify.. TFOY
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