Firehead94 Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 Hey guys, well first of all I am a 19 yr old college student dude. Well lets get straight to the point. Heres what happened. So I take this computer class and there are only 3 girls in there and the rest guys. And there is this one girl in my class(The one that approached me) And for the first 2 months since that class started, we havent really talked or anything like that. But then one day, when I was heading to that class, she was waiting outside and was on her phone. When I tried to go in the classroom, she told me to wait and it was apparent she had something to say to me, so I did wait. Then after she was done talking on the phone she started talking to me about stuff like "hey did you start that quiz yet" and "can you help me with some quizzes" and stuff like that. I was confused cuz why would someone randomly start talking to a person you dont know? And after that, she introduced herself by telling me her name and other personal stuff.. why would she do this?? She doesnt even know me! And btw, she has 2 other guys she talks to alot in that class too so why would she start talking me.. And its not like Im annoyed, shes actually pretty so I dont mind but Im just very confused. She also looks and smiles at me when I enter the classroom.
IT Geek Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 She's using you to pass the class..... Or maybe not. I know if I woman ever approached me that it would be because she wanted/needed something, not because she was interested in me. Good luck!
foreverandalways Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 Maybe she likes you? Simple as that. She's using the class work and quizzes to find a common ground of something to start a conversation about. Why would someone just randomly start talking to you? Because she is interested, and for 2 months she wasn't sure if you would talk to her, if she should talk to you, what to say, etc.
Keenly Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 I'm gonna say she's using you. Two girls I work with are pretty hot, they both are super nice and sweet for about two days, then they start slowing convincing you to do a lot of their work for them. 1
Author Firehead94 Posted April 11, 2013 Author Posted April 11, 2013 I dont know about that...cuz I can tell shes not that type of person and we're the only 2 asians in that class too..lol And she only asked me once to help her. Its been like a month since that day she approached me too. And she does most of her own work by herself too, I saw her grades the other day and she was doing pretty alright. And also another thing I forgot to mention. This other day when I just finished one of my class and was heading to the parking lot, coincidently she came out the other door and she was heading the same way. So I saw her and she saw me and we talked over to the parking lot together If she wanted to use me, I would think she would ask me more often about the work and i dont think she would look and smile at me in class for no reason.
steveT95 Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 Make a move, Dude, she has expressed interest. Go for it!
cavalier99 Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 Dude this stuff isnt rocket science. Ask her to get something to eat or a coffee or something. Or just slam your tongue down her throat and see what happens. If she calls camups police she doesnt like you. Otherwise your golden! Lol 1
justwhoiam Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 It looks like she's pretty and she's aware of that. And I think she likes playing games. > She made you wait for her to be done with her call... and you waited. You could have gone away and said "talk to you some other time when you're less busy". If your grades are really good, she probably wanted to take advantage of that. If you've been nice to her, maybe she also enjoys talking to you or spending some time with you. There's a high chance that you are being placed into her friend zone. Especially if you are like a doormat. A pretty girl's kryptonite is lacking the attention. Treat her like anybody else in the room and see what happens.
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